Some Examples From The Imams of Guidance and Piety – Nurturing Genuine Love, Affection and Respect

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Mujahid, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: “A man passed by Abdullah ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, so he said: ‘This man loves me.’ It was asked, ‘How do you know that?’ He replied, ‘I love him.'” [1]

Abu Idris Al-Khawlanee, may Allah have mercy upon him, reported: I entered the Damascus Masjid in Syria, then saw a young man with bright teeth and people were gathering around him. When they differed about something, they refer back to him and took his opinion. I asked about him and was told “This is Mu’adh Ibn Jabal”. So, I gave him Salaam and said, “By Allah! I love you for the sake of Allah”. He said: “For Allah’s sake?” I said: “For Allah’s sake”. He said: “For Allah’ sake?!” I said, “For Allah’s sake”. He held my cloak, got me close to him and said: “Rejoice, for indeed I heard Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, say, ‘Allah, The Mighty and Majestic, said: “My love is guaranteed for those who love one another for My sake, those who sit together for My sake, those who visit one another for My sake, and those who spend on one another for My sake”. [2]

Humayd reported from Al-Hasan, may Allah have mercy upon both of them, that Abu Ad-Dardaa, may Allah be pleased with him, said: “Be a scholar, or a learner, or one who loves (knowledge and its carriers) or one who follows (the truth). And do not be the fifth?” He (Humayd) said: “I said to Al-Hasan, I who is the fifth?” He said: “A Mubtadi”. [3]

A man said to Shahr ibn Hawshab: “Indeed, I love you”. He replied: “Why can you not love me, while I am your brother in faith upon Allah’s Book, your helper in the religion ordained by Allah and my livelihood is given by other than you”.(i.e. Allah) [4]

Imam Adh-Dhahabi, may Allah have mercy upon him, stated about Shaikh Al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allah have mercy upon him, “He has those who loved him among the scholars and the righteous, as well as among soldiers and rulers, merchants and dignitaries, and the general public loves him. This is because he is benefits them day and night with his tongue and pen. [5]

Taj Ad-Deen As-Subki, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: “I was often in the company of Adh-Dhahabi, may Allah have mercy upon him, going to him twice daily, in the morning and in the afternoon. As for al-Mizzi, I would only go to see him twice a week. The reason for this was that Adh-Dhahabi showed me great affection and kindness, to the extent that anyone who knew my situation with him would know that he did not love anyone as much as he loved me. I was young at that time and this had a great impact on me”. [6]

Ibn Abbas stood up next to Zaid Bin Thabit [may Allah be pleased with both of them] and held the stirrup of his riding beast. Zaid said to him, “Step aside, O cousin of Allah’s Messenger [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him]”. Ibn Abbas said to him, “This is what we do for our scholars and elders”. [7]

Salamah Bin Kuhail [may Allah have mercy upon him] said: “Ash-Shabi and Ibrahim An-Nakha’i [may Allah have mercy upon upon both of them] never sat together except that Ibrahim remained silent, and both of them were Taabi’een”. [8]

Al-Marwazi [may Allah have mercy upon him] said, “Abu Abdillah [Imam Ahmad – may Allah have mercy upon him] used to be from those who honoured his fellow Muslim brothers the most and those who were older than him. One time, Abu Hammam [may Allah have mercy upon him] came to him on a donkey, so he held the stirrup of the riding beast for him. I witnessed him doing the same for the eldest Shaikhs”. [9]

Idris Bin Abdul Karim said: “Salamah Bin Aasim said to me: “I want to hear Kitaab Al-Adad from khalaf”. I said, “Khalaf?” He said: “Let him come”. When Khalaf entered, he tried to make Salamah sit in the teacher’s place, but he refused, and said: “I will not sit except in front of you”. Then he said, “This is the right of learning”. Khalaf said to him: “Ahmad Ibn Hanbal came to me to listen to the narrations of Abu Awanah, so I tried make him sit and transmit, but he refused and said: “I will not sit except in front of you. We are commanded to be humble in the presence of the one from whom we learn”. [10]

Muhammad Ibn Raafi said: I was with Ahmad (Imam Ahmad) and Ishaq in the company of Abdur Razzaaq when the day of Eidul Fitr arrived, so we went out with Abdur Razzaaq to the Musalla and with us were many people. When we returned, Abdur Razzaaq invited us to lunch, then he said to Ahmad and Ishaq, “Today I saw something strange from both of you. You did not say the Takbir”. Ahmad and Ishaq said, “O father of Abu Bakr! We were waiting for you to say the Takbir so that we could say the Takbir, but when we saw that you did not say the Takbir, we refrained”. Abdur Razzaaq said, “I was waiting for both of you to say the Takbir so that I could say the Takbir”. [11]

Abdullah Bin Ahmad [may Allah have mercy upon him] said: I heard my father [Imam Ahmad – may Allah have mercy upon him] being asked: “Why did you not hear a lot (of hadith) from Ibrahim Bin Sa’d [may Allah have mercy upon him] and indeed he did stay next to you in the house of Amarah?” He said: “We attended his gathering once and he narrated to us. When the second session was held, he saw youth putting themselves forward (or speaking) before the elders, so he became angry and said, ‘By Allah! I will not narrate for a year’. He died and did not narrate (thereafter)”. [12]

Imam As-Sadi, may Allah have mercy upon him, stated about the Mu’allimeen (teachers):

They are the intermediary between the Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and his Ummah with regards to propagation of the religion and clarification of the Shariah. Had it not been for these ones, the people would have been like cattle. They nurture the souls and hearts of the slaves upon the beneficial sciences and sound knowledge. They are the ones who guide the Ummah in the fundamental and subsidiary affairs of their religion, and return them to the rulings related to the duties obligated to them and in their dealings, just as they return them to the affairs pertaining to worship. Through them the Book and the Sunnah are established, and through them is made clear truth from falsehood, guidance as opposed to misguidance, Halal as opposed to Haram, good as opposed to evil, and rectification as opposed to corruption. They are of varying ranks, in accordance with what they establish of knowledge, teaching and benefit- great or small. They have great rights (owed to them) by the ummah and are possessors of a lofty status. Therefore, the people must have love and respect for them. They must recognise their excellence and virtue, and thank them greatly. They are to supplicate for them in private and public, and seek nearness to Allah by having love for them and praising them. They are to proclaim their excellence; guard the hearts (from harbouring evil against them) and the tongues (from) insulting them, for this would tarnish their excellence. [13]

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[1] Al-Ikhwan page 75 by Ibn Abee Ad-Dunya, may Allah have mercy him.

[2] Ahmad 22030

[3] Jami Bayan Al-Ilm 1/142. By Ibn Abdil Barr, may Allah have mercy upon him.

[4] Kitab Uyun Al-Akhbar 3/15

[5] Ar-Radd Al-Wafir 34

[6] Tabaqat Ash-Shafi’iyyah 10/398

[7] Al-Muntadhim Fee Taareekh Al-Muluk Wal Umam 5/215

[8] Taareekh Dimashq 25/367

[9] Al-Aadaab Ash-Shar’iyyah 1/416

[10] Al-Jaami Li-Akhlaaq Ar-Raawi Wa Aadaab As-Saami 1/198

[11] Siyar A’laam An-Nubula a 9/566

[12] Siyar A’laam An-Nubula 11/317

[13] An Excerpt from Nurul Basaa-ir Wal Albaab Fee Ahkaamil Ibaadaat Wal-Mu’aamalaat Wal Huqooq Wal Aadaab, page: 57-58