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Concern for our Children: We Nurture and Supplicate….

Imaam Fudayl Ibn Iyaad (rahimahullaah) made du’aa for his son saying:

”O Allaah! I have made strenuous efforts to nurture my son upon (goodness and piety), but I have not been able to nurture him, so nurture him for me.”

Allaah answered Fudayl’s supplication because his son changed and became one of the most righteous people during his era.

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[See Siyar A’laam Nubulaa 8/390]

The Scholars are my……Abu Maleeh (rahimahullaah)

Abu Maleeh (rahimahullaah) said:

, الْعُلَمَاءُ هُمْ ضَالَّتِي فِي كُلِّ بَلْدَةٍ

وَهُمْ بُغْيَتِي

وَوَجَدْتُ صَلَاحَ قَلْبِي فِي مُجَالَسَةِ الْعُلَمَاءِ

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[الحلية لأبي نعيم (4/85 )]

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Al-Hasan was talking about a Faqeeh, so what about lesser than the Faqeeh!

قال الحسن رحمه الله

إنْ كان الرجلُ ليكون فقيهًا جالسًا مع القوم فيرى بعضُ القومِ أنَّ به عِيًّا وما به من عيٍّ إلا كراهيةَ أن يشتهر

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[Source: الزهد لأحمد بن حنبل1455]

Ayyoub As-Sakhtiyaani used to say when congratulating a man…..

Hammaad Bin Zayd (rahimahullaah) said:

When Ayyoub As-Sakhtiyaani (rahimahullaah) used to congratulate a man for the birth of a child, he would say:

جَعَلَهُ اللهُ مُبَارَكًا عَلَيْكَ وَعَلَى أُمَّةِ مُحَمَّدٍ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ

May Allaah make him a blessing upon you and upon the Ummah of Muhammad (sallal-laahu-alayhi-wasallam).

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[Source:   الدعاء للطبراني] [945 ]

Seize The Benefit Of Five Things From The People Of Your Time

Ibn Abee Haatim(.328H) Rahimahullaah said:

”I entered Damascus and came upon the students of hadeeth, and I passed by the circle of Qaasim al Joo’ee(d.248 AH). I found a  group sitting around him and he was speaking. Their appearance amazed me; and I heard him saying:

”Seize The Benefit Of Five Things From The People Of Your Time:

  1. When you are present, you are not known;
  2. When you are absent you are not missed;
  3. When you are seen, your advice is not sought;
  4. When you say something, your saying is not accepted;
  5. And when you have some knowledge, you are not given anything for it.

I Also Advise You With Five Matters:

  1. When you are treated unjustly, do not behave unjustly;
  2. When you are praised, do not become happy;
  3. When you are criticised, do not become upset;
  4. When you are not believed, do not become angry;
  5. And if people act deceitfully towards you, do not act deceitfully towards them.”

Ibn Abee Haatim said: ”So I took that as my benefit from Damascus.”

Related by Ibn al Jawzee in Sifatus-safwah(2/200).