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[6] Some Extraordinary Personalities of The First Three Generations

In The Name of Allaah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Bishr Ibn Al-Harith, may Allah have mercy upon him

Bishr Ibn Al-Harith Ibn Abdir Rahman Ibn Ataa Ibn Hilaal Ibn Mahan Ibn Abdillah Al-Marwazee. He was well known as for Zuhd. His grandfather Abdullah accepted Islam at the hands of Ali Ibn Abee Talib, may Allah be pleased with him. 

Bishr learnt a lot from Imam Hammad Bin Zayd, may Allah have mercy upon him, Imam Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak, may Allah have mercy upon him, Imam Ibn Mahdee, may Allah have mercy upon him, Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy upon him, Imam AbuBakr Bin Ayyash, may Allah have mercy upon him, and others. Thereafter, he busied himself with worship, isolated himself from the people and stopped narrating.

Many of the Imams of the Sunnah praised him due to his devotion to worship, his Zuhd and Taqwah. Imam Ahmad, may Allah have mercy upon him, said when Bishr’s death reached him, “None was like Bishr, except Aamir Bin Abdi Qays, may Allah have mercy upon him. His affair would have been perfected if he got married”.

Ibraheem Arr-Harbi, may Allah have mercy upon him, said, “There was none in Badgdad who was more sensible and restrained his tongue more than Bishr Al-Hafi (i.e. Bishr Ibn Al-Harith)”.

One day he knocked at the door of someone, a young female servant said, “Who is it?” He said, “Bishr Al-Hafi (i.e. Bishr the barefooted)”. The girl said, “If only you bought shoes for a Dirham, the word Hafie would have disappear from us”.

Al-Khatib Al-Baghdadi, may Allah have mercy upon him, stated that Bishr had three sisters and all of them were devout worshippers like him and even more pious. [end of quote] [An Excerpt from Al-Bidayah Wan-Nihayah. 10/ 297-299]

While reading about the lives of these amazing personalities, a sensible person would not desire engaging in argumentation with the people of his era. Rather, he would reflect on his own shortcomings and realise the urgency of striving to follow the path of these noble men. We ask Allah to distance us from everything that diverts us from what is truly beneficial for our afterlife. Amin.

[5] Some Extraordinary Personalities of The First Three Generations

In The Name of Allah, The most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Ibrahim Ibn Ad’ham, may Allah have mercy upon him

Ibrahim Bin Ad’ham Ibn Mansur, Ibn Yazeed Ibn Aamir Ibn Ishaaq At-Tameemee, and it was said Al-Ajlee. He was originally from Balkh, then he resided in Syria and entered Damascus. He narrated hadeeth from his father, from Al-Al-A’mash and Muhammad Bin Ziyaad – Abu Hurairah’s companion, and from Abu Ishaaq As-Sabee’ee.  Imam An-Nasaa’ee said,  “Ibrahim Bin Ad’ham is a trustworthy narrator, reliable and he from the Zuhhad”. He was one of the devout worshippers.

Abdullah Ibn Al-Mubarak, may Allah have mercy upon him, “Ibrahim was a virtuous man and he devoted himself in the worship of his Lord in a way that was hidden from others. Neither have I ever seen him openly remembering Allah nor performing extra acts of worship [i.e. he performed extra acts of worship in seclusion]. None ever ate food with him, except that he was the last to raise his hand to eat”.

Ibrahim Bin Bash’shaar, may Allah have mercy upon him, said to Ibrahim “Why have you stopped narrating hadeeth?” He replied, “I replaced it with three things:  striving to be grateful to Allah for the blessings He has bestowed on me, striving to seek Allah’s forgiveness due to sins and preparing for the Afterlife”.

He said: “Grief is of two types: the grief that is in your advantage and the grief that is against you. Your grief regarding the hardships in the afterlife is in your advantage [i.e. it makes you prepare for that which saves a person in the afterlife]. And your grief regarding the worldly life [i.e. due to greed, mutual rivalry, covetousness etc] is against you”.

He said: Zuhd is three types: obligatory, recommended and the zuhd that is based on safety. The obligatory zuhd is that one abstains from what is unlawful, the recommended abstinence is that one abstains from the unnecessary lawful desires and the abstinence that is based on safety is that one abstains from doubtful (or ambiguous) matters”.

He said: “Having less eagerness and desire for the extra and unnecessary things of worldly life leads a person to truthfulness and makes him avoid doubtful matters out of fearing that he will fall into what is unlawful, thus puts himself in trouble in the afterlife. Having a lot of eagerness and desire for the excess and unnecessary things of the worldly life leads to grief and anxiety”.

He used to supplicate, saying “O Allah! Turn me away from the humiliation that results from disobeying You and grant me the honour that is associated with obedience to You”.

Al-Awzaa’ee, may Allah have mercy upon him, hosted him as his guest, but  he limited what he ate. Al-Awzaa’ee said to him, “Why did you limit”, he replied, “Because you also limited”. Then Ibrahim prepared food and invited Al-Awzaa’ee, so he said to Ibrahim, “Do you not fear that this is tantamount to extravagance?” Ibrahim replied, “No, rather extravagance is that which is spent in disobedience to Allah, but as for what a man spends on his brothers, it is part of the religion”.

An Excerpt From Al-Bidayah Wan-Nihayah. 10/135-139

 

[4] Some Extraordinary Personalities of The First Three Generations

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Imam Al-Awzaa’ee, may Allāh have mercy upon him

Imam Malik, may Allāh have mercy upon him, said, “Al-Awzaa’ee, may Allāh have mercy upon him, was an Imam who was taken as an example to be followed”.

Imam Sufyan Bin Uyaynah, may Allāh have mercy upon him, said, “Al-Awzaa’ee was an Imam of his era. He performed Hajj several times and entered Makkah. Sufyan Ath-Thawree, may Allāh have mercy upon him, grabbed the rope of his camel, Malik Bin Anas followed behind him and Ath-Thawree said, ‘Give the Shaikh a place to sit’ until he got him to sit at the Kabah and both of them took knowledge from him”.

Imam Malik and Imam Al-Awzaa’ee engaged in discussion several times at Madinah from Dhur prayer until Asr prayer; then from Asr prayer to Maghrib prayer. Al-Awzaa’ee overwhelmed him in the subject matter regarding military expeditions and Malik overwhelmed him in Fiqh or some issues of Fiqh.

Al-Awzaa’ee said, “Follow the footsteps of the pious predecessors even if the people reject you, and beware of the speech of men even if they beautify and make it look good, because the affair is very clear and you are on the straight path”.

He also said, “Exercise patience upon the Sunnah, stop where the pious predecessors stopped, say what they said, refrain from what they refrained from, and be sufficed with what sufficed them”.

He said, “Knowledge is that which has  been transmitted from the companions of Muhammad [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] and what did not come from them is not knowledge”.

Al-Waleed Bin Muslim said, “After performing the morning prayer, Al-Awzaa’ee sat and engaged in remembrance of Allah until sunrise, and he used to attribute this deed to the pious predecessors”.

He engaged in much worship, performed the prayer in an excellent manner, refrained from doubtful matters due to fear of Allah, devoted himself to piety and used to keep quiet for a long time. He used to say, “Whoever prolongs the night prayer, Allah will make easy for him the standing on the day of judgement”, and he based this speech of his on Allah’s statement:

وَمِنَ ٱلَّيۡلِ فَٱسۡجُدۡ لَهُ ۥ وَسَبِّحۡهُ لَيۡلاً۬ طَوِيلاً

إِنَّ هَـٰٓؤُلَآءِ يُحِبُّونَ ٱلۡعَاجِلَةَ وَيَذَرُونَ وَرَآءَهُمۡ يَوۡمً۬ا ثَقِيلاً۬

And during night, prostrate yourself to Him (i.e. the offering of Maghrib and ‘Isha’ prayers), and glorify Him a long night through (i.e. Tahajjud prayer). Verily! These (disbelievers) love the present life of this world, and put behind them a heavy Day (that will be hard). [Al-Insaan. 26-27]

Al-Waleed Bin Muslim, may Allāh have mercy upon him, said, “I have not seen anyone who exerts himself in worship more than Al-Awzaa’ee”.

Many people have stated that once he performed hajj and did not sleep during his journey, rather he was engaged in prayer. And when he felt sleepy, he reclined on a saddle.

A woman once came to Al-Awzaa’ee’s wife and saw that his prayer mat was soaked and asked, “Perhaps a toddler urinated on it?”. His wife replied, “This is the effect of the Shaikh’s tears due to weeping in Sujud and this is what he does every day”.

He used to say, “The love for Ali and Uthman, may Allah be pleased with them, is not combined in a heart except that of a believer”. [End of quotes] [An Excerpt From Al-Bidaayah Wan-Nihaayah. 10/116-117]

Reflecting on these quotes from Al-Bidayah Wan-Nihayah and translating them to the best of my ability was truly enjoyable. I reflected upon the great status of these illustrious personalities, their humility, and their devotion to worship, which manifested to me the fact that there should be no time wasting in any competition other than emulating these amazing people. I had time to reflect upon the fact that while I ascribe myself to the path of the Salaf, I now – in my mid fifties – must constantly ask myself if I really understand who these amazing people were. Then I said to myself, from now on I will not allow anyone or any issues in our era to divert my attention from reading more about the lives of these personalities. Indeed, in the quiet corner of your house or even in the company of family and in-laws, one can read about these amazing people and ask Allah for guidance towards their path in Aqeedah, worship, methodology, and conduct. Indeed, true competition is to strive to emulate these illustrious people while seeking Allah’s protection from misguidance and everything that interferes with a person’s sincerity. May Allah grant all of us, in our moments of solitude and during gatherings, to emulate these amazing people Amin.

[3] Some Extraordinary Personalities of The First Three Generations

In The Name of Allāh, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

 

Amir Al-Muminin – Umar Ibn Abdil Aziz, may Allāh have mercy upon him

He said to the people after becoming the Khaleefah

I command you to fear Allah, because fear of Allah precedes everything and nothing precedes it. Remember death a lot, because indeed it is the destroyer of pleasures and  prepare for it properly before it arrives. By Allah! Neither will I give anyone based on falsehood nor deprive anyone of his rights”. Then he raised his voice and said, “O people! It is obligatory to obey whoever obeys Allah and whoever disobeys Allah is not to be obeyed. Obey me as long as I obey Allah, but do not obey me if I disobey Allah”. [1]

He once wrote to one of his officials and said, “Indeed, I command you to fear Allah, adhere to the Sunnah of Allah’s Messenger, limit yourself to the Messenger’s command, abandon that which the people have newly initiated in the religion after him – those who wage war against the Sunnah –  and have stopped acting on his true religion. Know that a Bidah has never occurred, except that there is evidence to show its falsity, therefore it is obligated to you to adhere to the Sunnah, for indeed it is the tradition of those [i.e. the Sahabah] who know the deviation, error and  foolishness that is in that which is in opposition to it. They were more able to explain the affairs and more robust in the performance of deeds. Their deeds were performed properly, therefore if that which you do is virtuous, they would have been foremost in doing so. This is because they preceded everyone in every good. And if you say, “Good has also occurred after them”, then know that it was initiated by one who followed other than the path of the believers- deviated from their path and turned himself away from it. Indeed, they [i.e. Sahabah] have spoken about the religion based on that which suffices and described it with that which solves the problem, so those who do not act based on what they followed have fallen short and those who go beyond what they followed are not good doers. Indeed, people diminished their religion and became mixed up and others wanted to go above them and became extremists.

He said, “Allah’s Messenger and his Khulafaa after him established Sunan, adhering to it is obedience to Allah and a testification that the Book of Allah is truth. It is not allowed for anyone to change or substitute it and no consideration is given to anyone who opposes it. Whoever adheres to that which has preceded will be guided and the one who uses it as a source of foresight will be able to see clearly. As for the one who opposes it and follows other than the path of the believers, Allah will leave him in the path he has chosen and burn him in hell, and what an evil destination!”.

One day, he spoke in the presence of a group of his companions and Allah granted him the ability to convey a fine admonition, then he saw a man in the gathering whose eyes were filled with tears, so he immediately stopped talking. The man said to him, “O Amir Al-Muminin! Carry on with your admonition because indeed I hope that Allah will bless the one who hears or the one it reaches”. He said to the man, “O Abu Ayyoub! Take this from me, for indeed there is a trial whose evil the speaker may not escape when speaking to the people. Acting is more appropriate for the believer than speaking”.

Rajaa said, “When Umar Bin Abdul Azeez was about to depart from this world, he kept on saying, “O Allah! Make me pleased with your divine will and bless me in your divine decree, so that I do not hasten what you have delayed and not delay what you have hastened”.

Excerpt from Al-Bidayah Wan Nihayah. 9/213–217. Publisher: Maktabah Al-Ma’aarif and Daar ibn Hazm. 9th Edition. 1414 AH (1994)


[1] The rulers are not obeyed when they do wrong, but inciting rebellion or rebellion itself against them is not permissible. Read: https://salafidawahmanchester.com/2021/02/10/believers-bahaviour-towards-muslim-rulers-advise-given-in-private-supplicate-for-them-and-refrain-from-rebellion-so-beware-of-spiteful-foreign-instigators-and-some-dangerous-social-media-networ/

 

[2] Some Extraordinary Personalities of The First Three Generations

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Besower of Mercy.

Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said:

إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَبْعَثُ لِهَذِهِ الأُمَّةِ عَلَى رَأْسِ كُلِّ مِائَةِ سَنَةٍ مَنْ يُجَدِّدُ لَهَا دِينَهَا

Allah will raise for this Ummah at the end of every hundred years the one who will revive its religion for it. [1]

[إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَبْعَثُ لِهَذِهِ الأُمَّةِ  – Allah will raise for this Ummah]- meaning the Ummah Al-Ijabah [i.e. the Muslims]. [عَلَى رَأْسِ كُلِّ مِائَةِ سَنَةٍ – At the end of every hundred years]- meaning at the end of every hundred years when there is little knowledge of the Islamic legislation and the authentic Prophetic Tradition, whilst ignorance and religious innovation is rife. 

[مَنْ يُجَدِّدُ لَهَا دِينَهَا   – One who will revive its religion for it]- meaning a scholar who is alive and well known. He will clarify the authentic Prophetic Tradition and distinguish it from the religious innovations. knowledge will be abundant again and its adherents will be aided, and the proponents of religious will be overcome and degraded.

This reviver is non else but a scholar who has sound understanding of the religious sciences that deal with acts of worship, the underlying wisdoms of the religion and the texts that deal with beliefs of the heart. [2]

A group amongst the scholars-  including (Imam) Ahmad Bin Hanbal –  stated that Umar Bin Abdul Azeez was alive at the end of the first hundred years and he is more worthy and entitled to be entered into this category of people due to his leadership and striving to establish truth.

He used to write to the employees of the state to remind them to adhere to the Sunnah, saying, “If the Sunnah does not rectify you, Allah will not rectify you”.

He used to give a 100 Deenaars a year from the state fund to those who travel to the central mosque of their country to study Fiqh , spread knowledge and teach recitation of the Qur’an. 

He used to say, “O Allah! Grant us safety. O Allah! Grant us safety. O Allah! Rectify the one in whose rectification there will be rectification for the Ummah of Muhammad, and destroy the one in whose destruction there will be rectification for the Ummah of Muhammad”.

Every night, he used to gather  his companions amongst the jurists and they would not mention anything else besides death and the Hereafter, then they would weep.

He said to a man, “Teach your child Al-Fiqh Al-Akbar [i.e. the sound Aqeedah, especially Tawhid], contentment and to prevent harm”.

A man recited this Ayah in his presence: [إِذَا أُلْقُوا مِنْهَا مَكَانًا ضَيِّقًا مُقَرَّنِينَ دَعَوْا هُنَالِكَ ثُبُورًا -And when they shall be thrown into a narrow place thereof, chained together, they will exclaim therein for destruction].  [Surah Al-Furqan. 13] He wept a lot, got up and entered his house. The people left him and departed.

It reached him that a man amongst his companions passed away, so he went to the man’s family to offer his condolences. The family cried loudly in his presence, so he said, “Enough, indeed your relative is not the one who gave you provision, rather the one who gives you provision is alive and will never die. This relative of yours cannot prevent anything from you in your grave, but he can only prevent events in his grave by way of his deeds and every person amongst you has a pit. When Allah, The Mighty and Majestic, created the worldly life, He decreed that it will be completely destroyed and its inhabitants will cease to exist. There’s no gathering except that one day they will be separated until Allah takes back the earth and what is on it. So, whoever weeps, then let him weep for himself because what has happened to your relative will happen to you tomorrow”. [3]


[1] Al-Bidaayah Wan-Nihaayah. 9/303-309. Publisher: Maktabah Al-Ma’aarif and Daar ibn Hazm. 9th Edition. 1414 AH (1994)

[2] Sahih Sunan Abee Daawud. 4291.

[3] Al-Bidaayah Wan-Nihaayah. Vol 9. Pages 303-309. Publisher: Maktabah Al-Ma’aarif and Daar ibn Hazm. 9th Edition. 1414 AH (1994)

[1] Some Extraordinary Personalities of the First Three Generations

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Umar Ibn Abdil Aziz, may Allāh have mercy upon him

He once wept when he was a child. When that reached his mother, she asked him, “What made you weep?” He said, “I remembered death”, thus, his mother also wept.

Az-Zubayr Bin Bakkaar said, “The first matter that manifested from Umar’s uprightness was his fervent desire for knowledge and good manners. He was very young when his father was appointed as the governor of Egypt. His father wanted to travel with him from Syria to Egypt, but he said to his father, ‘O my father! Perhaps something else is more beneficial for me and you!’ His father said, ‘What’s that?’ He said, ‘Take me to Madinah to sit with the Fuqaha and learn from their manners’. His father sent him to Madinah together with a servant. He sat with the Mashayikh of Quraish and avoided their youth, and did not cease doing so until he became well known”. .

Anas Ibn Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “I have not prayed behind an Imam whose prayer resembles that of Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, more than this young man. [Umar Bin Abdil Azeez]”.

Ismaa’eel Bin Ayyash said that Amr Bin Muhaajir said, “When Umar Bin Abdil Azeez  became the Khalifah, he stood in front of the people, praised Allah and said, ‘O people! Verily, there is no Book after the Qur’an and no Prophet after Muhammad, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him. Indeed, I am not a judge, rather I am one upon whom it is obligated to comply with commands and prohibitions. Indeed, I am not an innovator in religious matters, but rather I am one who adheres to the Sunnah. Verily a man who flees from an oppressive leader cannot be a wrong doer, but that oppressive leader is the disobedient one. Indeed, there is no obedience to the creation in disobedience to the Creator, The Mighty and Majestic’”.

Az-Zubayr Bin Bakkaar said, “Muhammad Bin Sallam informed me that Sallam Bin Salim said, ‘When Umar Bin Abdil Azeez became the Khalifah, he climbed the Minbar – and that was the first Khutbah he delivered; he praised and exalted Allah, then said, ‘O people! Whoever accompanies us, let him accompany us with five matters otherwise let him disassociate from us: Let him inform us of the needs of those who are not able to inform us, help us to do good by his guidance, direct us to good by way of that which he guides himself, refrain from backbiting anyone in our presence and not engage in that which does not concern him’. After this speech of his, the poets and sermonisers disassociated from him, but the Zuhhad and the jurists kept close company with him and said, ‘We cannot disassociate from this man until he opposes what he has stated’”..

Sufyan  Ibn Uyaynah said, “When Umar Bin Abdil Azeez became the Khalifah, he contacted Muhammad Bin Kab, Rajaa Bin Haywah and Salim Bin Abdillah and said to them, ‘You have seen that which I have been put to trial and indeed it has fallen upon me, so what advice do you have?’ Muhammad Bin kab said, ‘Consider the old man a father, the young person a brother and the little one as your child. Therefore, be good to your father, keep ties with your brother and be kind to your child’. Rajaa said to him, ‘Wish for the people what you wish for yourself, hate for them what you hate for yourself and do not approach them except in manner you would like them to approach you’. Salim said, ‘Concentrate on one affair by degrading the lusts of the worldly life and let your innate disposition be directed towards reflecting upon death’. Umar said, ‘Laa Hawla Walaa Quwwata illaa Billah’”.

Whenever he faced a difficult matter, he would gather the jurists of Madinah, particularly ten of them and would not firmly decide on a matter without them or some of them. They were Urwah, Ubaydullah Bin Abdillah Ibn Utbah, AbuBakr Bin Abdir Rahman Ibn Al-Harith Ibn Hisham, AbuBakr Bin Sulayman Ibn Khaythama, Salayman Bin Yassaar, Al-Qaasim Bin Muhammad Ibn Hazm, Salim Bin Abdillah, Abdullah Bin Aamir Ibn Rabee’ah and Kharijah Bin Zayd Ibn Thabit. He never used to hold a view that was different from that of Sa’eed Ibn Al-Musayyib, and Sa’eed did not visit any of the caliphs besides Umar Ibn Abdil Azeez in Madinah.

Maymun Bin Mihran said, “The scholars were students in the presence of Umar Bin Abdil Azeez”.

One day, he was sitting in his place of prayer with his hand on his cheek and tears flowing. His wife – Fatimah- entered and said, “What is the matter with you?” He replied, “Woe to you O Fatimah! I have taken the responsibility of looking after the affairs of this Ummah, thus, I pondered upon the affair of the poor and hungry person, the sick and destitute, the one without appropriate clothing and is making strenuous efforts, the helpless orphan, the lonely widow, the subjugated – oppressed person- the stranger, the war captive, the old man, the one who has numerous dependants and little wealth and those similar to them in the various regions of the earth and the different countries. So, I knew that my Lord, The Mighty and Majestic, will question me about them on the day of judgement, the one who will argue on their behalf against me will be Muhammad, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and I fear that I will not have strong proof in the presence of his arguments, thus, I felt sorry for myself and wept”.

Every day, he used to announce, “Where are those in debt? Where are the married people and where are the orphans so that I can  give them sufficient provision”.

He said, “It is obligated to you to fear Allah, because indeed fear of Allah does not accept anything else to interfere with it. None shows mercy except the people who fear Allah and no reward is given except for it. Those who admonish people about it are many, but those who act upon it are few”.

He said, “The one who knows that his speech is part of his deeds, his speech will not be related to anything except that which concerns and benefits him”.

He said, “The one who does not consider his speech to be part of his deeds, his mistakes will be numerous,  and whoever worships Allah without Knowledge will corrupt more than he rectifies”.

Malik Bin Deenaar said: “The people say that Malik is a Zahid, but what type of Zahid am I; rather Umar Bin Abdil Azeez is the Zahid because the worldly wealth came to him and he abandoned all of it”.


An Excerpt from Al-Bidaayah Wan-Nihaayah. 9/193-202. Publisher: Maktabah Al-Ma’aarif and Daar ibn Hazm. 9th Edition. 1414 AH (1994)

Truth Prevails Over Closest Family Ties: The Unflinching Honesty and Relentless Integrity of the Imams of Hadith

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Imam Al-Khatib Al-Baghdadi, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

There is no one among the people of hadith who showed favoritism (or behaved in a biased manner) in hadith — neither toward his father, his brother, nor his son. Ali ibn Abdillah Al-Madini, may Allah have mercy upon him, was an Imam of hadith in his era, however, not a letter is reported from him with regards to strengthening (the reliability of) his father; rather, the opposite of that is what has been narrated from him. [1]

Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: “Ali Ibn Al-Madini, may Allah have mercy upon him, was asked about his father, so he said: ‘Ask someone else’. They said: ‘We ask you (in particular)’. He lowered his head (in silence for a while), then he raised his head and said: “This is the religion, my father is weak (in hadith)”. [2]


[1] Sharaf Ashab al-Hadith p. 41
[2] Al-Majruhin 2/15

[8] Determinants of Wholesome Relationships

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

The Exemplary Behaviour of Our Salaf As-Salih [Pious Predecessors] During Disagreement

Rabee’ah Al-Aslami [may Allah be pleased with him] narrated: I used to serve Allah’s Messenger [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him], so he gave me a piece of land and gave Abu Bakr [may Allah be pleased with him] a piece of land. Then, the worldly life came and we argued over a bunch of palm trees, so Abu Bakr said, ‘It is in my piece of land’ and I said, ‘It is in my piece of land’. There was an exchange of words between Abu Bakr and myself, so Abu Bakr said something to me that I disliked, and he regretted that. He said to me, ‘O Rabee’ah! Say in return to me what I said to you so that it becomes retribution’. I said, ‘I will not do so!’ Abu Bakr said, ‘Say it, or I will call Allah’s Messenger on you!’ I said, ‘I will not do so’. So Abu Bakr abandoned the piece of land and went to the Prophet and I followed him. The people from (the tribe of) Aslam came and said, ‘May Allah have mercy on Abu Bakr! Why would he call Allah’s Messenger on you when he has said to you what he has said?’ I said, ‘Do you know who that is? That is Abu Bakr -the Truthful (as-Siddeeq). He is the one who was in the Cave with the Prophet, and he is the elder of the Muslims! So beware that he turns around and sees you helping me against him and it makes him angry, then Allah’s Messenger comes along and becomes angry because of Abu Bakr’s anger, and then Allah becomes angry due to their anger, and thus Rabee’ah is destroyed!’ So, they said, ‘So what do you want us to do?’ I said, ‘Go back to where you came from’. Abu Bakr went to Allah’s Messenger and I followed him by myself and continued until he reached and informed him of our conversation as it happened. So he (the Prophet) raised his head to me and said, ‘O Rabee’ah! What is going on between you and as-Siddeeq?’ I said, ‘O Allah’s Messenger! This happened and that happened, so he said something to me that I disliked, and he told me to say the same thing back to him so that it would be a retribution’. Allah’s Messenger said, ‘Do not return his comment to him, rather say, may Allah forgive you O Abu Bakr! May Allah forgive you O Abu Bakr!’ Then Abu Bakr turned his face and began to cry”.

Al-Allamah Zayd Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [may Allah have mercy upon him] commented:

The hadith contains a remarkable story that provides us with an exhortation and a lesson. It demonstrates the pure hearts of the companions towards each other, showing that even in times of disagreement over worldly matters, they did not boycott one another, nor harboured grudges or hatred, instead, they offered sincere advice. This narrative highlights that the Sahaabah were people of fair play and justice, and they feared falling into disobedience and evil deeds. And if punishment was legislated for an evil deed, they preferred that it is received in this life rather than in the hereafter. This story illustrates the excellence of AbuBakr, his esteemed position among the Sahaabah, in the view of the Prophet, and also in the sight of Allah, as the Prophet held him in great regard and elevated him to his deserved status, just as Allah says in the Qur’an:

إِذۡ هُمَا فِى ٱلۡغَارِ إِذۡ يَقُولُ لِصَـٰحِبِهِۦ لَا تَحۡزَنۡ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَنَا‌ۖ

The second of two, when they were in the cave, he [Muhammad] said to his companion [Abu Bakr], “Be not sad (or afraid), surely Allah is with us”. [Surah At-Tawbah. Ayah 40]

Abu Bakr was the Prophet’s fellow in the cave. He holds the highest level of virtue among the Ummah after the Prophet, as agreed upon by Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jamaa’ah past and present. Indeed, the Prophet said to some of his other companions regarding Abu Bakr: “Would you not leave my companion for me” – meaning AbuBakr [i.e. don’t bother him, etc][Bukhari 3661]

This narrative highlights the importance of forgiveness and pardoning those who have wronged you, when you can do so and due to a (lawful or overriding) benefit because being forgiving and pardoning others will only bring you honour and a loftier status in the sight of Allah.

This narrative also demonstrates that the companions of the Prophet were not infallible. They made unintentional mistakes, but they were people whom Allah favoured with the privilege of being in the company of the Prophet. They did not persist in their mistakes, as can be seen in this story. Disagreements did arise among them, but they humbled themselves to the truth. They did not reject the truth with falsehood or engage in oppression. Instead, they promptly sought the guidance of Allah’s Messenger to resolve (the disagreements). The Messenger resolved those issues, and all of them were content with the judgment and submitted wholeheartedly.

This narrative highlights the importance of making supplications for others, especially those who have wronged you. Therefore, you supplicate for them that (Allah) rectifies their affairs and forgives them because you have an angel who responds, saying, “Ameen, and may Allah grant you the same”. One should be eager about this practice! The story shows that fulfilling the rights of others in this life is better than delaying it until the Day of Judgment, where no one will forgive another, even if they are close relatives. Additionally, it showcases the wisdom of Rabee’ah Al-Aslami, who advised his companions not to support or argue against Abu Bakr, recognising his esteemed status in the sight of Allah and the Messenger.

What do we derive as a benefit from this story: We must forgive and maintain love for each other when we have disagreements about worldly matters. A person should be eager to give others their rights and also seek forgiveness from those they have argued with.

An Excerpt from “at-Taleeqaat Al-Maleehah Alaa Silsilah Al-Ahaadeeth As-Saheehah”. Pages 1/42-44

 

[6] Determinants of Wholesome Relationships

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy

Distance From Transgression

Allah, The Most High, said:

 وَلَقَدۡ ءَاتَيۡنَا بَنِىٓ إِسۡرَٲٓءِيلَ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبَ وَٱلۡحُكۡمَ وَٱلنُّبُوَّةَ وَرَزَقۡنَـٰهُم مِّنَ ٱلطَّيِّبَـٰتِ وَفَضَّلۡنَـٰهُمۡ عَلَى ٱلۡعَـٰلَمِينَ
وَءَاتَيۡنَـٰهُم بَيِّنَـٰتٍ۬ مِّنَ ٱلۡأَمۡرِ‌ۖ فَمَا ٱخۡتَلَفُوٓاْ إِلَّا مِنۢ بَعۡدِ مَا جَآءَهُمُ ٱلۡعِلۡمُ بَغۡيَۢا بَيۡنَهُمۡ‌ۚ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ يَقۡضِى بَيۡنَہُمۡ يَوۡمَ ٱلۡقِيَـٰمَةِ فِيمَا كَانُواْ فِيهِ يَخۡتَلِفُونَ

And indeed We gave the Children of Israel the Scripture, and the understanding of the Scripture and its laws, and the Prophethood; and provided them with good things, and preferred them above the ‘Alamin (mankind and jinns) (of their time, during that period); And gave them clear proofs in matters [by revealing to them the Taurat (Torah)]. And they differed not until after the knowledge came to them, through envy among themselves. Verily, Your Lord will judge between them on the Day of Resurrection about that wherein they used to differ. [Surah Al-Jathiyah 16-17]

Allah, Glorified be He and free is He from all imperfections, informed us that those who differed with each other based on false interpretation, did not differ due to an absence of the knowledge which the Messengers conveyed to them, rather they differed after knowledge came to them and this has been (mentioned) a lot in the Qur’an. [1] They did not differ due to an absence of knowledge, rather (the cause of the differing was due to) the transgression and oppression (perpetrated by) some of them against others. [2]

Damratah Bin Thalabah [may Allah be pleased with him] said that  Allah’s Messenger [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] said, “The people will not cease to be upon good as long as they do not envy one another.

Distance From Envy and Have Ghibtah

Al-Allamah Zaid Bin Haadi Al-Mad’khali [may Allah have mercy upon him] said:

The hadith is clear in its prohibition against envy. What is intended by envy is when one wishes that the blessing bestowed upon another person should cease, regardless whether the envier wants that blessing for himself or for another person, or wants that the blessing given to the one he envies should cease- whether the blessings is related to an affair of the religion or a worldly affair. Envy is forbidden and the command to seek Allah’s protection from the evil of an envier has been stated in the Qur’an: [وَمِن شَرِّ حَاسِدٍ إِذَا حَسَدَ – And from the evil of the envier when he envies]. Therefore, one should be careful of envy! Indeed the Prophet said, “Do not envy one another”. [3]

Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim [may Allah have mercy upon him] said: There are three types of envy. The first type is very little and does not lead the (envier) to harm (others)-either by way of (hatred in) his heart, (speech of the) tongue or (deeds of the) hand; rather the person has some envy in his heart but he only deals with his Muslim brother through what Allah loves. The second type is that the envier desires that the blessing (bestowed on the one he envies) should cease. He hates that Allah should give blessings to His slaves; rather he (desires) that the envied person should remain in that state (of deprivation).The third type is Al-Ghibtah and it is when a person wishes to be like another person without desiring that the blessing possessed by that person should cease. The person who has this type of envy is not blamed; rather this is very similar to praiseworthy competition to excel another in good deeds. [4]

Amir Al-Muminin – Mu’aawiyah Bin Abi Sufyan, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, said: “I am able to please all the people [i.e. with regards to what is lawful] except the one who is envious of a blessing because never will he be pleased until that blessing ceases”. [5]

Imam Muhammad Ibn Sirin, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: “I do not envy anyone for some worldly thing, because if he is going to be from the people of paradise, then how can I envy him for something of the worldly life, while he is destined for Paradise?! And if he is going to be from the people of the hell fire, then how can I envy him for something of the worldly life, while he is destined for the Hellfire?!” [6]


[1] Bada’i at-Tafsir al-Jami Limaa Fassarahu Al-Imam Ibn al-Qayyim. 2/446

[2] Tafsir As-Sadi.

[3] at-Taleeqaat Al-Maleehah Alaa Silsilah Al-Ahaadeeth as-Saheehah. Page 1/270.

[4]: Badaa’i Al-Fawaa-id 2/237

[5]: Tarikh Baghdad 59/200

[6] Az-Zudh Al-kabeer’ Number 845]

Insights From a Famous Hadith of Hudaifah – By Allamah Salih Al-Fawzan

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Al-Allamah Salih Al-Fawzan, may Allah preserve him, said:

All praise and thanks be to Allah, Lord of the worlds, and may Allāh’s peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family and his companions.  To proceed: Indeed, the hadith that will be addressed – in this lecture – is the hadith of Hudhaifah Bin Al-Yaman, may Allah be pleased with him. He said: 

People used to ask Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, about the good times, but I used to ask him about bad times fearing lest they overtake me.  I said, “O Messenger of Allah! We were in a state of pre-Islamic ignorance and evil, and then Allah brought us this good (time through Islam), is there any evil time after this good one?” He said, “Yes” I asked, “Will there be a good time again after that evil?” He said, “Yes, but therein will be a hidden evil”. I asked, “What will be the evil hidden therein?” He said, “People who will follow ways other than mine and seek guidance other than mine. You will know (their) good points as well as (their) bad points”. I asked, “Will there be an evil time after this good one?” He said, “Yes, when there will be people standing and inviting at the gates of Hell. Whosoever responds to their call they will throw them into the fire”. I said, “O Messenger of Allah! Describe them for us”. He said, “They will be a people having the same complexion as ours and speaking our language”. I said, “O Messenger of Allah! What would you suggest if I happened to live in that time?” He said, “You should stick to the main body of the Muslims and their leader”. I said, “If they have no main body and no leader?” He said, “Separate yourself from all these factions, though you may have to eat the roots of trees (in a jungle) until death comes to you and you are in this state”. [Bukhari and Muslim…. The wording of the above is that of Imam Muslim]

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