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Author: Amjad Khan

Principle of Love and Hate Explained by Shaykh ‘Ubayd al-Jābirī (rahimahullāh)

Indeed, many of those who claim they are callers to Allah transgress and deviate in the matter of love and hate. For the criterion of love and hate with such people is based on individuals and personalities. The people of truth have agreed that none from mankind is loved for his own person except for the Prophet ﷺ. He ﷺ conveyed from Allāh, and he ﷺ is infallible in what he conveyed from Allāh ﷻ, he ﷺ conveyed (the message) clearly, neither adding nor omitting from what he ﷺ was commanded with. Likewise, this is the case with the rest of the prophets and messengers (عليهم الصلاة والسلام).

As for the Sunnah, then the criterion of love and hate is not tied to personalities. Rather, it is for Allāh alone. It is authentically reported that love is for Allāh, hate is for Allāh, allegiance is for Allāh, disavowal is for Allāh, giving is for Allāh and withholding is for Allah [1]; these are six traits. Whoever perfects them and makes them his way in dealing with others has completed the firmest handhold of faith.


[1] Abū Dawūd 4681.. Authenticated by al-Albāni in as-Ṣaḥīḥah 380

Imdād as-Salafī bi Uṣūl wa Qawā’id fī al-Manhaj as-Salafī

The Obligation of Truthfulness and Sincerity in all Dealings – Shaykh Ibn Bāz (rahimahullāh)

All praise belong to Allāh, may peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allāh, upon his family, and his companions and all those who follow in their way.

To Proceed:

Allāh (Glorified and Most High) made truthfulness and sincerity in dealings obligatory upon the Muslims and prohibited them from lying, deception and betrayal. This is because truthfulness, sincerity, sincere counsel, fulfilment of responsibilities and trusts, genuine cooperation [in good] between individuals, all have a profound effect in rectifying the community. Adherence to these matters likewise brings safety from mutual oppression, enmity, the unlawful seizure of wealth, and the spread of rancour and hatred amongst people.

 It is authentically reported from the Prophet ﷺ that he said,

الدين النصيحة قيل لمن يا رسول الله؟ قال: لله ولكتابه ورسوله ولأئمة المسلمين وعامتهم

The religion is sincere advice. It was said, to whom Oh Messenger of Allāh? He replied, For Allāh, for His Book, for His Messenger, for the leaders of the Muslims and for the general people. [1]

And in the Ṣahīhayn (Bukhāri and Muslim), on the authority of Jarīr ibn ‘Abdillāh al-Bajalī (رضي الله عنه), who said,

البيعان بالخيار ما لم يفترقا، أو قال حتى يتفرقا، فإن صدقا وبينا بورك لهما في بيعهما، وإن كتما وكذبا محقت بركة بيعهما

“I gave the pledge of allegiance to the Prophet that I would establish the prayer, give the zakāt and sincerely advise [and intend good for] every Muslim.”[2]

And in the Ṣahīhayn, on the authority of Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه), the Messenger of Allāh said,

ثلاثة لا يكلمهم الله ولا ينظر إليهم يوم القيامة ولا يزكيهم ولهم عذاب أليم، رجل على فضل ماء بالفلاة يمنعه من ابن السبيل، ورجل بايع رجلا بسلعة بعد العصر، فحلف له بالله لأعطي بها كذا وكذا، فصدقه وهو على غير ذلك، ورجل بايع إماما لا يبايعه إلا للدنيا فإن أعطاه منها وفى، وإن لم يعطه منها لم يف

“There are three whom Allah will not speak with, nor look at, nor purify on the Day of Resurrection, and they will have a painful punishment. [The first is] A man who possesses surplus water in the wilderness and withholds it from a traveller. [The second is] a man who sells goods to another after ‘Asr and swears by Allāh that he was offered such and such for it, so the man believes him while this was untrue. [The third is a man who pledges allegiance to a ruler, for no other reason than worldly gain, if he was given some, he fulfils [his pledge], if he is not given any, he does not fulfil [his pledge].[3]

Therefore, it is an obligation upon all Muslims to fear Allah regarding their dealings, to be wary of all causes of Allāh’s Anger and painful punishment against which the people of deception, betrayal and lies have been threatened. Likewise, it is an obligation upon all to encourage one another with truthfulness and sincerity and fearing Allah in all matters, for in doing so lies true happiness in the worldly life and the hereafter, it brings about a purification of the hearts and rectifies society. This also brings blessings in one’s dealings, protection from consuming the unlawful and protects a Muslim from oppressing his brother.

It is authentically reported from the Prophet ﷺ that he said,

المؤمن للمؤمن كالبنيان، يشد بعضه بعضًا، وشبَّك بين أصابعه

“The believer to another believer is like a building, each part supporting the other” – he clasped his hands together and interlaced his fingers.[4]

He ﷺ also said,

مثل المسلمين في توادهم وتراحمهم وتعاطفهم كمثل الجسد الواحد، إذا اشتكى منه عضو تداعى له سائر الجسد بالسهر والحمى

“The similitude of the Muslims in their mutual love, mercy and affection is the similitude of one body, when one limb of it complains, the rest of the body reacts with sleeplessness and fever.”[5]

I ask Allāh – The One free of all deficiencies – to rectify the state of the Muslims, to unite their hearts upon Taqwa, to rectify their rulers, to grant them all truthfulness, and sincerity in all affairs, and to cooperate in righteousness and piety. Indeed, Allāh is the Most Generous, the Most Bountiful.

May Allāh’s Peace and Blessings be upon our Prophet Muḥammad, his family and his companions.


Abridged from Majmū’ Fatāwa wa Maqālāt of Shaykh Ibn Bāz vol.4, p.103

[1] Muslim 55

[2] Bukhāri 57, Muslim 56

[3] Bukhāri 7212, Muslim 108

[4] Bukhāri 481, Muslim 2585

[5] Muslim 2586

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The Obligation of Truthfulness and Sincerity in all Dealings – Shaykh Ibn Bāz

The Noble Quran is a Cure for The Diseased Heart – Shaykh Fawzan

Diseases of the heart are more severe than diseases of the body, because the eventual end of bodily diseases is death—and death is an inevitable outcome. Allah the Most High said:

كُلُّ نَفۡسٖ ذَآئِقَةُ ٱلۡمَوۡتِۖ ثُمَّ إِلَيۡنَا تُرۡجَعُونَ

Everyone shall taste the death. Then unto Us you shall be returned. Al-‘Ankabut 29:57

However, diseases of the heart are more dangerous, because if they persist, then indeed the heart dies—meaning it becomes completely ruined. The possessor of such a heart may become a disbeliever, or deviated, or among the open sinners. Therefore, diseases of the heart are more severe and more dangerous for people than bodily diseases. There is no cure for diseases of the heart except through the Noble Qur’an, which Allah sent as a cure for mankind. He the Most High said:

وَنُنَزِّلُ مِنَ ٱلۡقُرۡءَانِ مَا هُوَ شِفَآءٞ وَرَحۡمَةٞ لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ وَلَا يَزِيدُ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ إِلَّا خَسَارٗا

And We send down from the Quran that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe (in Islamic Monotheism and act on it), and it increases the Zalimun (polytheists and wrong-doers) nothing but loss. Al-Isrā’ 17:82


Muhaadaraat fee al-Aqeedah wa al-Dawah v.1 pg.280

Angels at Our Sides: The Ever-Present Witnesses – Shaykh Fawzan

Every person has two angels assigned to him— one on his right who records his good deeds, and one on his left who records his bad deeds.

إِذۡ يَتَلَقَّى ٱلۡمُتَلَقِّيَانِ عَنِ ٱلۡيَمِينِ وَعَنِ ٱلشِّمَالِ قَعِيدٞ

(Remember!) that the two receivers (recording angels) receive (each human being after he or she has attained the age of puberty), one sitting on the right and one on the left (to note his or her actions).

مَّا يَلۡفِظُ مِن قَوۡلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيۡهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٞ

Not a word does he (or she) utter, but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it). Qaf 50:17-18

These angels are the keepers and protectors who remain with a person during travel and residence, in all of his states: during his prayer, his prostration, and throughout his daily life. They do not leave him except during private moments, such as when he is relieving himself. They are constantly recording a person’s words and actions.


Shaykh Fawzan’s Muhaadaraat fee al-Aqeedah wa ad-Da’wa v.1 pg.275-276

Manners with Allah – Shaykh ‘Uthaymin

Manners with Allah include establishing His worship and obedience, glorifying Him, the Mighty and Majestic.. A person should not put himself ahead of Allah by declaring lawful what is unlawful or declaring unlawful what is lawful, or by obligating something which Allah has not obligated – among other etiquettes and manners. Similarly, a person must not disobey Allah—whether in private or in public—because whoever disobeys Him has not shown proper manners with Allah, the Mighty and Majestic.


Fath Dhee Al-Jalaal wa al-Ikraam bi Sharh Buloogh al-Maram v.15 pg.5

May Allah Rectify Your Religion – Shaykh Al-‘Uthaymeen

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“If you want to ask Allah for someone’s well-being, say:

‘May Allah rectify your religion and your worldly life.’

Begin with the religion, because if the religion is sound, the worldly life will also be sound.”


Fath Dhee Al-Jalaal wa al-Ikraam bi Sharh Buloogh al-Maram v.6 pg.513

Ponder on Allah’s Rights Upon You – Ibn al-Qayyim

Ibn al-Qayyim — may Allah have mercy on him — said:

“If you reflect on the condition of most people, you will find them looking at what (they believe) is their right upon Allah, rather than looking at Allah’s right upon them.

From this perspective, they become cut off from Allah, and their hearts are veiled from truly knowing Him, loving Him, yearning to meet Him, and delighting in His remembrance.

This is the ultimate ignorance a person can have — of his Lord and of his own self.”


Ighaafata al-Lahfaan, 1/89

Sins are Major and Minor – Shaykh Fawzaan

إِن تَجۡتَنِبُواْ كَبَآئِرَ مَا تُنۡهَوۡنَ عَنۡهُ نُكَفِّرۡ عَنكُمۡ سَيِّـَٔاتِكُمۡ وَنُدۡخِلۡكُم مُّدۡخَلًا كَرِيمًا

If you avoid the great sins which you are forbidden to do, We shall remit from you your (small) sins, and admit you to a Noble Entrance (i.e. Paradise). An-Nisa’ 4:31

Allah’s statement contains a clear indication that sins are of different types: major and minor. Whoever avoids the major sins, Allah will pardon and forgive their minor sins. This is a promise from Allah, Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.

وَنُدۡخِلۡكُم مُّدۡخَلًا كَرِيمًا

and admit you to a Noble Entrance (i.e. Paradise). An-Nisa’ 4:31

This too is a promise from Allah. Within this verse lies a refutation of the methodology of the Khawarij and the Mu’tazilah, who claim that the perpetrator of a major sin exits the fold of Islam. In contrast, the methodology of Ahlus-Sunnah is the truth—balanced, far removed from extremism, negligence, exaggeration (ghuloo) and transgression in the religion.

ٱلَّذِينَ يَجۡتَنِبُونَ كَبَٰٓئِرَ ٱلۡإِثۡمِ وَٱلۡفَوَٰحِشَ إِلَّا ٱللَّمَمَۚ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ وَٰسِعُ ٱلۡمَغۡفِرَةِۚ

Those who avoid great sins (see the Quran, Verses: 6:152, 153) and Al-Fawahish (illegal sexual intercourse, etc.) except the small faults, verily, your Lord is of vast forgiveness. An-Najm 53:32

This verse is one of the evidences that sins are categorised as major and minor.

كَبَٰٓئِرَ ٱلۡإِثۡمِ

Major sins; refers to the various acts of disobedience which reach the level of a major sin.

Al-Fawahish is the plural of Faahishah and refers to sins that are especially abhorrent and repulsive.

His statement – the Most High – إِلَّا ٱللَّمَمَۚ (except the small faults) refers to minor sins, which are expiated through various means, including:

• Abstaining from major sins, as mentioned in the verse.

• Performing the five daily prayers.

• Enduring calamities that befall a person—such as illness, disease, grief, and the loss of loved ones.

• Even something as small as a Muslim being pricked by a thorn, as is reported in the Hadith.¹

All of these affairs expiate minor sins, this is from the favours of Allah.

Additionally, He the Most High, said in another verse in Surah ash-Shoora,


وَٱلَّذِينَ يَجۡتَنِبُونَ كَبَٰٓئِرَ ٱلۡإِثۡمِ وَٱلۡفَوَٰحِشَ وَإِذَا مَا غَضِبُواْ هُمۡ يَغۡفِرُونَ

And those who avoid the greater sins, and Al-Fawahish (illegal sexual intercourse, etc.), and when they are angry, they forgive Ash-Shura 42:37

This verse is another proof that sins are distinguished as major and minor.


Shaykh Fawzaan’s Sharh Kitab Al-Kabaa’ir pgs. 13-15

  1. Bukhari 5640, Muslim 2572

Children do not Forget Their Early Lessons and Advice – Shaykh Al-‘Uthaymin

Al-‘Allaamah Ibn ‘Uthaymin (رحمه الله تعالى) said:

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

“O young boy, say Bismillah, and eat with your right hand.”

Know that when manners and etiquettes are taught to a child at a young age, they are not easily forgotten. A child will not forget what you teach him while he is young. However, when he grows older, it is possible that he may forget what you taught him, or even show some resistance. But whilst he is still young, he is more likely to be responsive and accepting of what you teach him.”


Sharh Riyadh as-Salihin, vol. 3, p. 172

How to Bring Life to Your Heart – Shaykh Khalid adh-Dhufayri

The remembrance of Allah is the life of the hearts; there is no life for them except through it. Al-Bukhari reports in his Saheeh from Abu Musa Al-Ash’ari (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet ﷺ said:

“The example of the one who remembers his Lord and the one who does not remember his Lord is like that of the living and the dead.”

The hearts find no reassurance, no tranquility, no true delight, and no real happiness except through the remembrance of Allah, the Almighty and Majestic.

ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ وَتَطۡمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُم بِذِكۡرِ ٱللَّهِۗ أَلَا بِذِكۡرِ ٱللَّهِ تَطۡمَئِنُّ ٱلۡقُلُوبُ

Those who believe (in the Oneness of Allah – Islamic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah, Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest. (Ar-Ra’d 13:28)


Khutbah of the Shaykh – سبق المفردون