I strongly advise you and myself with the Taqwa* of Allah, The Magnificent, and to adhere to the Sunnah, for indeed you have learnt what has befell those who opposed it and what has come to those who follow it.
Tabaqaat Al-Hanaabilah v.1 pg.342
*Definition of Taqwa by the Taabi’ee Talq ibn Habeeb (died 100H rahimahullah)
‘’It is to act in obedience to Allah, with a light from Allah (i.e. Eemaan) and hoping for Allaah’s Mercy. And that you abandon disobedience to Allah with a light from Allah and fearing the punishment of Allah. [Reported by Ibn Abee Shaybah 11/33 and Ibnul Mubaarak in Az-Zuhd 473]
There is nothing at all that produces the excellent outcomes and abundance of blessings like Tawheed, without question the good of the worldly life and the hereafter are from the fruits and virtues of Tawheed.
Whenever (you find) your heart heedless, and you are preoccupied with the worldly life, then go to the graves and contemplate about those people (in the graves), yesterday they were upon the earth, just as you are now.
and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know. (2:216)
Al-Allaamah al-Uthaymeen (rahimahullah):
Do not dislike something which Allah has chosen (decreed), for indeed Allah has chosen something which has a tremendous benefit in it, you are just not aware of it!
Muslims do not draw close to Allah with that which he finds the people upon, rather he only draws close to Allah by that which the Leader of Mankind, the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alaihi wa salam) was upon.