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Reflections from some statements of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [6 of 80]

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In the Name of Allāh, The Most-Merciful (to His creation), the Ever-Merciful (to His believing servants). [1]

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Accepting Advice and Wholehearted Submission to The truth is One of the Great Obligations (Obligated) to all Muslims

All praises be to Allāh, [2] and may peace and blessings be upon Allah’s Messenger, his family, his companions, and those who follow his guidance. To proceed:

I came across what some internet websites have disseminated (or posted) regarding a statement attributed to me, that I stated during one of my lectures: “If the Messenger of Allah disowned (or freed himself) from you through (or upon) the tongue of our Lord”. I said it while citing (or utilising as proof) the statement of Allah, the Exalted:

إن الذين فرقوا دينهم وكانوا شيعا لست منهم في شيء

“Verily, those who divide their religion and break up into sects (all kinds of religious sects), you (O Muhammad) have nothing to do with them” [3] regarding the prohibition of splitting (divergent sects, groups, parties). Then I stated: “How can we, my brothers, not fear while we choose this splitting and live with it for generations and ages?”

I seek Allah’s forgiveness – a hundred times – for this ugly (disgusting) and false statement. I request the removal of this statement from all cassettes (recordings) in which it appears, and I emphasise that anyone who possesses a recording containing this statement should delete it. And I say: Indeed, this statement is ugly (disgusting) and false; exalted is Allah above it, and free is He from it. That is because He, The Exalted, is free from any resemblance to the created things, as He, Glorified be He and free from all imperfections, says:

لَيْسَ كَمِثْلِهِۦ شَىْءٌ وَهُوَ ٱلسَّمِيعُ ٱلْبَصِيرُ

There is nothing like (similar) to Him, and He is the All-Hearer, the All-Seer. [4]

Likewise, He, The Mighty and Majestic, says:

قُلْ هُوَ ٱللَّهُ أَحَدٌ
ٱللَّهُ ٱلصَّمَدُ
لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ
وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُۥ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌۢ

Say (with a firm, resolute statement): “He is Allāh, (who is) uniquely One (in His perfect names, attributes, actions, and His right to worship). Allāh, the Eternal, Self-Sufficient Master (of utmost perfection in His attributes, to whom all creatures turn for their needs whilst He has none). He did not beget (such that He became a father) nor was He begotten (such that He became a son). And there is none equal, similar or comparable to Him (in His perfect names, attributes and actions).” https://www.thenoblequran.com/q/#/sura/112/1

And He, the Exalted, says:
هَلْ تَعْلَمُ لَهُۥ سَمِيًّا
Do you know of any that is worthy of His name (due to having similarity to Him)? [5]

In these noble verses are an affirmation of the Attributes of His Perfection and the descriptions of His majesty, while also exalting Him above attributes and descriptions of deficiency and the likeness to created beings. Neither is anyone similar nor comparable to Him in His Dhat (Self), and His Attributes, nor in any of His Magnificent Attributes. [6]

Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jama’ah affirm all of the attributes mentioned in the Qur’an and Sunnah without Tashbih, Ta’teel, Takyeef, or Tamtheel with regards to anything of His Attributes, such as Ascension above His Throne – above all of His creations, His Highness, Descent, Hearing, Sight, Ability, Iraadah, knowledge, Speech, and Wisdom, and the fact that He, The Exalted, is the Creator, the Provider, Giver of Life, and Causer of Death, among the other affirmed Names and Lofty Attributes of His. Ahlus Sunnah affirm them without Takyeef, Tamtheel, Tashbih, or Ta’teel, standing in opposition to Ahlul Ahwa (the sects upon vain desires in their creed), such as the Jahmiyyah, Khawarij, Mu’tazilah, Rawaafid, and Ash’ariyyah. [7]

And all praises be to Allah, I am from those whom Allah blessed with this methodology, which I firmly believe in the depth of my inner-self. I teach it, advocate for it, and defend it as a student and a teacher; calling to it with all my ability, establishing allegiance and enmity based on it from the beginning of my life (i.e. when he became acquainted with it). This statement, which I made during my lecture- in which I called to this path and urged those who oppose it to revise it – is extremely hated to me. This ugly (repugnant, disgusting) statement was a slip of the tongue on my part and had someone alerted me at the moment I uttered it, I would have rejected and distanced myself from it. It is not justified for anyone who comes across it to remain silent about it. It is akin to the statement made by the man whom the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, cited as an example, who said out of overwhelming happiness: “O Allah! You are my servant and I am Your Lord”. [8] Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, stated, “He (i.e. this man) erred due to overwhelming happiness.” Nevertheless, I experience profound pain from it and strongly condemn it for both myself and others (.e. not to utter this statement).

I beseech Allah, the Generous Lord of the Mighty Throne, to forgive me for all my sins, both those I have concealed and those I have made known. I ask for forgiveness for my slips and errors, including those of the pen, the tongue, the limbs, and the heart. “All the children of Adam commit mistakes, and the best of those who err are the repentant.” I beseech Allah to make me among the repentant and the purified. Accepting advice and adhering to the truth is one of the most obligatory duties for all Muslims, regardless of the source. It is not permissible for a Muslim to belittle or disdain the advisor, no matter their status. I seek refuge in Allah from rejecting advice or defending any wrong or falsehood that originates from me, for such behavior is characteristic of the corrupt, arrogant, obstinate, and those who, when given a reminder do not reflect (or take heed). I seek refuge in Allah from these ugly (repugnant, disgusting) traits. I ask Allah to include me among those about whom He says:

وَٱلَّذِینَ إِذَا ذُكِّرُوا۟ بِـَٔایَـٰتِ رَبِّهِمۡ لَمۡ یَخِرُّوا۟ عَلَیۡهَا صُمࣰّا وَعُمۡیَانࣰا

And those who, when they are reminded of the Signs of their Lord, fall not deaf and blind thereat. [9]

I advise myself and all Muslims to adhere to this methodology and remain steadfast in it, to accept the advice of those who advise, and to follow the path of the righteous predecessors in mutual advice, enjoining one another upon truth, and accepting guidance, in consideration (and application) of Allah’s statement:

وَٱلْعَصْرِ
إِنَّ ٱلْإِنسَٰنَ لَفِى خُسْرٍ
إِلَّا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ وَعَمِلُوا۟ ٱلصَّٰلِحَٰتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا۟ بِٱلْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا۟ بِٱلصَّبْرِ

By (the phenomenon of) time (which Allah manifests through His creation of night and day and in which the servants perform their deeds). Indeed, (all of) mankind is in loss. Except those who believe (in Allāh, His Angels, Books, Prophets, the Last Day and the Divine Decree) and work righteous deeds (which are sincere and correct) and mutually advise each other (in calling to and abiding by) the truth and mutually advise each other with patience (in facing the inevitable harms brought by calling to the truth). https://www.thenoblequran.com/q/#/sura/103/1 [10]
And in consideration (and application) of Allah’s statement:

والمؤمنون والمؤمنات بعضهم أولياء بعض يأمرون بالمعروف وينهون عن المنكر

The believers, men and women, are Auliya’ (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin good and forbid evil. [11]

Among the signs of upright guidance, uprightness, truthfulness (in statement and action), and salvation in this worldly and the Hereafter is to be steadfast upon the Book and the Sunnah, and to follow this methodology in belief, action, manners, and in enjoining good and forbidding evil, addressing shortcomings with wisdom and through (honourable, straight forward, honest) ways.

And I beseech Allah, The Mighty and Majestic, to grant success to this Ummah, particularly Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jama’ah, to advance this great methodology, unite their word upon it, and enable them to achieve (or attain upright) leadership, dignity, and honour in this worldly life; enable them to adhere to this methodology that will lead them to safety and salvation in the Hereafter. Indeed, my Lord is All-Hearing of supplications.

May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and his companions.

Written by:
Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali
8/7/1425 AH
Makkah Al-Mukarramah

[1] https://www.thenoblequran.com/q/#/sura/1/1

[2] https://www.thenoblequran.com/q/#/search/1_2

[3] Al-An’aam. 159

[4] Ash-Shura 11

[5] https://www.thenoblequran.com/q/#/search/19_65

[6] and [7] https://abukhadeejah.com/categories-of-the-attributes-sifat-of-allah/#:~:text=Examples%20are%20Life%20(Al%2DHay%C4%81t,such%20Attributes%20of%20the%20Self.
https://abukhadeejah.com/ibn-uthaimeen-important-principles-regarding-the-names-and-attributes-of-allaah-the-aqeedah-of-ahlus-sunnah-and-a-refutation-of-the-opposers/
https://www.salafipublications.com/sps/sp.cfm?subsecID=AQD03&articleID=AQD030007&articlePages=1

[8] Anas Bin Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessing of Allah be upon him, said: Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His servant when he turns back to Him than one of you would feel upon finding his lost camel in a desolate land, which had carried his food and drink. When he loses hope of recovering it, he lies down in the shade and is disappointed about his camel, thus he suddenly sees his camel standing right beside him. Overwhelmed with joy, he grabs its reins and exclaims: “O Allah! You are my servant, and I am Your Lord.” He has made a mistake due to the intensity of his happiness. [Sahih Muslim 2747]

[9] https://salafidawahmanchester.com/2024/03/21/medication-from-the-quran-for-one-who-only-desires-reminders-from-a-specific-person/

A Great Virtue and Blessing Possessed By These Two People- One Anonymous and The Other Unacknowledged

Written by Abdullah Jallow on . Posted in Brotherhood, Morals and Manners - 'Akhlaaq', Pearls of Wisdom, Purification of The Soul, Scholars of Islam, Worship - 'Ibaadah'.

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

The First Person:- Oways, may Allah have mercy upon him.

Umar Ibn Al-Khattab Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “I heard Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, saying: “Indeed, the best of the Tabi’in [i.e. followers of the companions] would be a person who would be a man called Oways. He would have his mother (living with him) and he would have (a small) sign of leprosy (on his skin). If you meet him, ask him to seek Allah’s forgiveness for you”.

Usair Bin Jabir reported that whenever the people from Yemen came to help (the Muslim army at the time of jihad), Umar would ask: “Is Oways ibn Aamir among you?” When he found Oways, he said: “Are you Oways ibn ‘Aamir?” He said: “Yes”. He said: “Are you from Murad then from Qaran?” He said: “Yes”. He said: “Did you have leprosy, then you recovered from it except for a spot the size of a dirham?” He said: “Yes”. He said: “Do you have a mother?” He said: “Yes”. He said: “I heard Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, say:” There will come to you Oways ibn Aamir with the reinforcements from Yemen, from Murad then from Qaran. He had leprosy but he recovered from it except for a spot the size of a dirham. He has a mother and he honours her. If he were to swear in the name of Allah that something should happen, Allah would cause it to happen. If you can ask him to pray for forgiveness for you then do so”. Seek forgiveness for me. So, he prayed for forgiveness for him. Umar said to him: “Where are you headed?”  He said: “Kufa”. He said: “Shall I write to the governor for you?” He said: “Being among the common folk is dearer to me”.

The following year, a man from among their nobles performed Hajj and he met Umar, who asked him about Oways. He said: “I left him in a shabby house with meagre provisions”. He said: “I heard Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, say:” There will come to you Oways ibn Aamir with the reinforcements from Yemen, from Murad then from Qaran. He had leprosy but he recovered from it except for a spot the size of a dirham. He has a mother and he honours her. If he were to swear in the name of Allah that something should happen, Allah would cause it to happen. If you can ask him to pray for forgiveness for you then do so”. So he went to Oways and said: “Pray for forgiveness for me”. He said: “You have just come from a sacred journey, so pray for forgiveness for me”. He said: “Pray for forgiveness for me”.  He said: “You have just come from a sacred journey, so pray for forgiveness for me”. He said: “Did you meet Umar?” He said: “Yes”. So he prayed for forgiveness for him, and the people came to know of his piety, so he left. Usayr said: “His garment (allocated annually by the state) was a cloak (burdah) and every time anyone saw him he would say: ‘From where did Oways get this cloak?'” [Sahih Muslim 2542]

Imam An-Nawawi, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: This story of Oways is a clear miracle of Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. The Messenger’s statement “If you meet him, ask him to seek Allah’s forgiveness for you” is a manifest virtue of Oway’s, and this hadith shows that it is desired for one to ask for the supplication of the righteous people, even if the one who is asking is more virtuous than the one who is asked to supplicate.

The statement of the Messenger “The best of the Tabi’in is a man called Oways” is very clear regarding the fact that he is the best of the Tabi’in. But if it is said, “Indeed, Ahmad Bin Hanbal did say that the best of the Tabi’in is Sa’eed Ibn Al- Musayyib”, so the response to this is that what they intended is that Sa’eed Ibn Al- Musayyib is the best in the Shariah sciences, such Tafsir, hadith and other than it, but not the best with regards to being virtuous in the sight of Allah [The Exalted].

When Umar Ibn Al-Khattab Khattaab met Oways, he said to him, “Where are you headed?” Oways said, “Kufa”. Umar said, “Shall I write to the governor for you?” He said, “Being among the common folk is dearer to me”. This is preferring to be unknown and hiding one’s state of affairs. (1)

The Second Person is Anonymous

The Messenger, peace and blessing of Allah be upon him, said: “Many a person with disheveled hair and covered with dust is turned away from the doors (whereas) were he to swear by Allah (about something), Allah will fulfill it”. [Sahih Muslim Number 2622]

This type of person is one whom the people drive away from their doors in humiliation. He has no status in the sight of the people; but he is someone that if he were to swear by Allah about something, Allah would make it happen as an honour for him- by answering his request and safeguarding him from sin regarding his oath. This is due to his great station in the sight of Allah (The Exalted), even though he is someone despised in the sight of the people. (2)

Al-Allamah Salih Al-Fawzan, may Allah preserve him, stated:

It is said that the meaning of this is that a person is a close friend among the close friends of Allah, and were he to swear by Allah (about something), Allah will make it happen due to his high status in the sight of Allah, even though he is driven away from the doors. If he intercedes (for someone), his intercession will not be accepted; if he is absent, he is not missed, but he is a great one in the sight of Allah. (3)

Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said, “Allah loves a slave who is pious, self-sufficient and unnoticed.” [Sahih Muslim 2965]

Imam Muhammad Ibn Salih Al-Uthaymin, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

Taqiy- Pious: Fears Allah [The Mighty and Majestic], so he fulfils Allah’s commands and keeps away from what Allah has prohibited. Fulfils Allaah’s commands, such as performance of the prayer and performs it in congregation in the Masjid, pays the zakaat and gives it to the one entitled to it, fasts the month of Ramadhaan, treats orphans with kindness and other types of acts of piety, righteousness and means to doing good.

Ghaniy- self-sufficient: Has no need of the people and suffices himself with Allaah. He does not ask the people anything (I) and does not lower himself to the people (i.e due to being in need of them) (II); rather he is not in need of the people. He knows himself, suffices himself with his Lord and does not pay attention to other than his Lord.

Khafiy- hidden or unnoticed: He does not make himself manifest and does not give importance to manifesting himself amongst the people, to be pointed out or for people to speak about him. You find him between his house and his (local) Masjid vice versa; from his house to his relatives and his brothers, whilst being unnoticed, and makes himself unnoticed. However, this does not mean that if Allah grants a person knowledge, he confines himself in his house and does not teach the people. This is in opposition to piety (because) teaching the people is better for him than being confined in his house and does not benefit the people with his knowledge, (III) or he sits in his house and does not benefit the people with his wealth; rather if the affair is between being conspicuous- to manifest himself or make himself visible, and between hiding himself (i.e. without a need to make himself manifest), then he chooses to hide himself; but if it is the case that he must make himself apparent, then he has to make himself apparent. This is beloved to Allah [The Mighty and Majestic]. [4]

[1]An Excerpt from Sharh Saheeh Muslim by Imam An-Nawawi. Vol 15. Pages 76-78.

[2]An Excerpt from Sharh Saheeh Muslim’ Vol 15 page 144.

[3It’haaf At-Tullab Bi-Sharhi Mandhoomah al-Adaab’ page 102.

[4]Explanation of Riyaadus Saaliheen. Chapter 69. Vol 3. Page 509. Publisher: Al-Maktabah Al-Arabiyyah As-Su’oodiyyah Edition 1425AH]

Reflections from some statements of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [5 of 80]

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allāh preserve him, said:

The comprehensive Shariah understanding of Al-Fiqh Fid Deen (Understanding of The Religion) “Whoever Allah wishes good for, He grants him understanding in the religion”: When this  “Understanding of the religion” is mentioned amongst the people, they understand it to mean the books of Islamic jurisprudence (the books that discuss the rulings related to prayer, zakat, fasting, marriage etc.). This is a deficient understanding. Fiqh (understanding) first and foremost is the understanding of the creed and Tawhid. This is the highest level of Fiqh because the nobility of knowledge is determined based on the nobility of its subject matter. The best and noblest subject matter is Tawhid that teaches the people about the Attributes of their Lord and the perfection of His Attributes, His Oneness, to worship Him (alone) and sincerely establish the religion for His Sake.

Therefore, we seek understanding of Tawhid from Allah’s Book, the Sunnah of Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him, and from the understanding of our pious predecessors. We seek understanding in all areas of knowledge – understanding of halal and haram, acts of worship, mutual dealings, economics and in every affair. All these affairs – and all praise and thanks be to Allah – are extensively (found) within the (message) conveyed by Muhammad, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him. When Fiqh is mentioned, its intended (meaning includes) understanding of every matter that is connected to our religious and worldly affairs, and the foremost of them is the knowledge of Tawheed. There is nothing that can do without the knowledge of Tawheed. Some people deeply preoccupy with sciences and subject matters, but not acquainted with this knowledge conveyed by the Messenger, to such extent that you find many people who are well versed in language, Islamic jurisprudence, philosophy and the science of rhetoric; but – by Allah – he does not know (correct meaning) of “Laa ilaaha illal laah” – the Islamic Monotheism that Allaah sent all the Messengers with- the first and last of them. [وَلَقَدۡ بَعَثۡنَا فِى ڪُلِّ أُمَّةٍ۬ رَّسُولاً أَنِ ٱعۡبُدُواْ ٱللَّهَ وَٱجۡتَنِبُواْ ٱلطَّـٰغُوتَ‌ۖ – And verily, We have sent among every Ummah (community, nation) a Messenger (saying): “Worship Allah (alone), and avoid (or keep away from) all false deities.”] [An-Nahl. 36]

Every Messenger conveyed this until the advent of the seal of the Messengers Muhammad, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him, who resided in Makkah for ten years and called to Tawhid. Tawhid was the foremost aspect and basis of his call. The prayer – the second pillar of Islam after the testimony of faith ‘Laa ilaaha illal laah – was not legislated until in the 10th year, and the full details of Zakat was not legislated until (after his migration to) Madinah, and all the other laws. This shows the importance of Tawheed, so how is it that many people who ascribe to Islam- those who claim knowledge – are ignorant of it, then what about the ignorant people? Due to this, misguidance, bidah and grave worship has become widespread, and this arose due to ignorance regarding the Names and Attributes of Allah and negation of Allah’s Attributes. A people from the other religions entered into Islam and plotted against the people (through)] corrupt sciences – rhetoric, philosophy, forged historical accounts and what is similar, thus corrupting their creed and methodology.

The Shaikh also said:

(One) must seek understanding of Allah’s Book and the Sunnah of Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him based on the understanding of the Messenger and the understanding of the pious predecessors – the companions and those who followed them exactly in faith. These matters must be acquired, for whoever opposes anything of it, he will be misguided. What a beautiful statement of Ibn Taymiyyah I have read and was transmitted by Ibn Al-Qayyim: “Whoever opposes the proofs will be misguided from the (right path) and there is no proof except that which the Messenger brought”. Our proof is the Qur’an and Sunnah, and whoever is deprived of it- in any affair- will be misled. This is a true statement and it is what the Messenger and the companions have stated and followed aforetime whilst seeking understanding of the religion. A proof – in any affair related to the religion – is “Allah said and Allah’s Messenger said”. At present, there are affairs whose proofs reach a thousand in number, but you do not find them in the books of the people of misguidance. They have been misguided from the right path and deprived of numerous proofs.

The Ahnaf (i.e. Hanafis) state in their definitions of Fiqh that it is of two types: The Fiqh al kabir Wal Akbar. Fiqh al kabir – according to them – is the understanding related to the Shariah rulings and the subsidiary issues of the religion, and what is similar to that. This is a great affair! However, what is greater than it and must be acquired – and the people will not rejoice except through – is the understanding of Tawheed and Iman. This is the greater Fiqh – meaning, we seek understanding of our religion and understand the two types of Fiqh – the Fiqh Al-kabir and the Fiqh Al-Akbar. The Fiqh Al-Akbar is the understanding of Tawheed and Iman, and the Fiqh Al-kabir is the Fiqh through which we can distinguish between halal and haram, truth and falsehood. We derive it from the book of Allah, the sunnah of the Messenger and the understanding of our pious predecessors. We utilise their understanding to aid us understand, as well as what they left behind for us in the Arabic language, Usul Al-Fiqh, and Usul Al-Hadith- the science through which ahadith are declared authentic or weak. All these affairs must be acquired by the students of knowledge and they cannot do without it.

The person who studies Fiqh and does not give importance to the proofs- does not distinguish between what is authentic and weak – will fall into very big mistakes, for he might worship Allah based on a weak or fabricated hadith. Therefore, he must distinguish between authentic and weak hadith. Ahmad Ibn Ishaaq, may Allāh have mercy uponhim, –  an Imam of Fiqh and Hadith- said: ‘’The one who does not distinguish between authentic and weak hadith is not a scholar.’’ Why is this (the case)? Because he might worship Allah, declare something halal or haram based on weak or fabricated ahadith, thus he harms himself and the people. Whoever is deprived of proof will be misled from the right path and this is a principle cited in every affair related to religion. Therefore, it is obligated to you to acquire understanding of the religion based on the path of the pious predecessors.

When a companion was asked a question, he would answer with a verse and a hadith, and never said, “My opinion is such and such”. He would never exit the text of the Shariah in his answer, except if no evidence reaches him; then he would strive to reach a verdict as that textual proof was with someone else because this person did memorise something and that one memorised something else, and that third person missed something. So, he fears Allah and strives to reach a verdict based on what his ability allows him and the text available to him, and then says: “Allah says and the Messenger says.’’ If he does not have proof, he strives to reach a verdict and says: “This is my view. If I’m correct, it is from Allah; but if I’m mistaken, it is from myself and Shaytaan”. This is what Ibn Mas’ud, may Allāh be pleased with him, and other than him used to say. Whenever AbuBakr, may Allāh be pleased with him, was compelled due to a need and he did not have a textual proof from Allah (i.e. Qur’an] or what the Messenger, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him, said regarding such and such matter, -and also Umar, may Allāh be pleased with him, used to do the same; he asked someone younger than him and finds a hadith related to the matter from someone younger than him amongst the companions, and from the latter companions, such as Al-Mugheerah Ibn Shu’bah, may Allāh be pleased with him. 

The entire life of a person is spent in seeking knowledge – from the cradle to the grave.  He does not feel proud to acquire truth from a young or older person, and he never rejects truth – whether it is stated by a Muslim or Unbeliever. His soul seeks after the truth, thus if he finds a text from the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of the Messenger, all praises and thanks be to Allah; but if he does not have it and finds it with someone else, he accepts it. Ibn Hazm, may Allāh have mercy upon him, said: “It may be that a person did memorise verse and a hadith, then something occurs, but he forgets the verse and the hadith and is reminded by someone else. It is not possible for a person to establish or accomplish his religious and worldly affairs except through co-operating upon righteousness and piety. He does not become proud when something occurs whilst he has no proof or cannot recall a text he did memorise, or has forgotten, or does not have a statement from the companions and the Tabi’in, (rather) he asks someone else and does become haughty.

An Excerpt from “Marhaban Yaa Taalib Al Ilm – pages 243-247

Reflections from some statements of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [4 of 80]

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy

Shaikh Rabee Bin Hadi, may Allah preserve him, said:

Imam Al-Bukhaari, may Allāh have mercy upon him, said: “Chapter: knowledge precedes speech and action.”

Knowledge is the foundation of statements and actions; thus, it is obligatory that you abide by  knowledge in everything you utter and say. “’Whoever believes in Allah and the last day, let him say what is good or remain silent.” The knowledgeable believer – the one who honours the Risaalah [The Message of Islam] -within which is embodied this knowledge – abides by this lofty behaviour, and that is he does not utter except what is good.

However, if he does not find any room to utter a statement of truth, it is obligated to him to remain silent and should not utter that which is tantamount to wicked speech, false speech, backbiting, (I) tale carrying, oppressive and corrupt rumours. The pious believer – the one who (knows) and acts – adheres to knowledge and guidance based on sound understanding and implementation of the divine texts- the knowledge found in the Qur’an and Sunnah. He guards his statements and deeds, when moving to do something and when he refrains because he knows that:

[ مَّا يَلۡفِظُ مِن قَوۡلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيۡهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ۬ – Not a word does he (or she) [i.e. a human being] utter, but there is a watcher (i.e. angle) by him ready (to record it)]. [Qaf. 18]

This is beneficial knowledge – praiseworthy knowledge – in the Sight of Allāh, The Blessed and Exalted.. The possessor of this knowledge is one regarded to be in a praiseworthy situation because when he utters statements, perform deeds and acts of worship, he pays close attention to the fact that Allah (sees and hears him, and knows everything about him), and he does so sincerely for the Sake of Allah. He worships Allah as if he can see Allah, but even though he cannot see Allah (i.e. in this worldly life), he believes that Allāh, The Blessed and Exalted, sees him, knows everything in his soul and heart, and knows everything he needs. He knows this because of his strong awareness -whilst engaged in worship and in all other affairs of his life- that Allah (sees and hears him, and knows everything about him).

Knowledge is not merely about studying and obtaining certificates, rather the goal is to acquire sound and precise understanding – sound understanding in affairs of Aqeedah, worship, good manners, good etiquettes and everything related to the life of a believer. It is obligated to the believers to carry out everything related to their lives based on the Book of Allaah and the sunnah of Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him.  The believer performs acts of worship sincerely for the Sake of Allah because Allah commanded him  to be sincere.

وَمَآ أُمِرُوٓاْ إِلَّا لِيَعۡبُدُواْ ٱللَّهَ مُخۡلِصِينَ لَهُ ٱلدِّينَ حُنَفَآءَ وَيُقِيمُواْ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ وَيُؤۡتُواْ ٱلزَّكَوٰةَ‌ۚ وَذَٲلِكَ دِينُ ٱلۡقَيِّمَةِ

And they were commanded not, but that they should worship Allah, and worship none but Him Alone (abstaining from ascribing partners to Him), and perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give Zakat: and that is the right religion. [Al-Bayyinah. 5] [An Excerpt from “Marhaban Yaa Taalib Al-Ilm’ pages 72 – 73] [End of quote]

Footnote I: Situations in which backbiting is permissible due to an overriding Shariah benefit: Backbiting is permissible in several situations when the need arises: When enquiring about the affair of someone you want to marry or before establishing a business partnership with someone. When complaining to the ruler about the oppressive behaviour of someone and seeking to stop the oppression. In these situations, there is no harm- due to an overriding benefit – in mentioning about a person in his absence that which he hates to hear. Some of the scholars mention the situations in which backbiting is permissible: [a] Complaint given by one who is wronged; [b] When describing a person; [c] When giving a warning against open evil [i.e. bidah committed by certain people]; [d]: Warning against a person who openly commits his sins. [e] When seeking a fatwa and [f] when seeking the help to stop evil. [Fataawa Lajnah Ad-Daa’imah 20/26]

Some Narrations That Bring Happiness to Those Who Follow The Pious Predecessors-By Shaikh Khalid Adh-Dhafiri

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Shaikh Khalid Adh-Dhafiri, may Allah preserve him, stated:

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

These are some of the Aathaar as-Salafiyyah and Aqwaal Al-Athariyah [I] that illustrate the obligation of harbouring hatred and disdain for the proponents of innovation in religious matters for the sake of Allāh. I present this to the seeker of truth and the one who follows the path of the (pious) predecessors, so that they may act upon them and traverse the footsteps of his  predecessors. These Aathaar bring happiness to those who follow the pious predecessors, while they may anger others who despise the Salafi methodology and accuse them of Kharijiyyah. [II] We ask Allah for wellbeing.

It has been reported from Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, that he said, “There is not a people on earth who are more hated to me than the Qadariyyah [III] who come to me and dispute with me about Qadr, and that is only because they do not know Allah’s Qadr, and that indeed Allah, The All-Mighty and Majestic, cannot be questioned as to what He does, while they will be questioned”. [Reported by Al-Aajuree in Ash-Sharee’ah. page 213]

It has been reported from Ibn Awn, may Allah have mercy upon him, that he said, “There was no people more hateful to Muhammad – meaning Ibn Seereen, may Allah have mercy upon him, – than people who newly invented that which they newly invented in this subject matter of Qadr”. [Reported by Al-Aajuree in Ash-Sharee’ah. page 219]

Shu’bah, may Allah have mercy upon him, said, “Sufyaan Ath-Thawri, may Allah have mercy upon him, used to hate ahlul ahwaa [IV] and severely warned against sitting with them”. [Reported by Nasr Bin Ibraaheem Al-Maqdisee (may Allah have mercy upon him) in Mukhtasar Al-Hujjah Alaa Taarik Al-Mahajjah. page 460]

Al-Qurtubi, may Allah have mercy upon him, said, “Malik (i.e. Imaam Maalik) used this verse as evidence for having enmity against the Qadariyyah and not to sit with them. Ash’hab, may Allah have mercy upon him, reported from Malik, may Allah have mercy upon him, who said, ‘Do not sit with the Qadariyyah and I show them enmity for the sake Allah due to Allah’s statement: [لا تجد قوماً يؤمنون بالله واليوم الآخر يوادون من حاد الله ورسوله – You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger]. [Tafseer Qurtubi 17/308] 

Al-Bayhaqi, may Allah have mercy upon, him stated, whilst speaking about Ash-Shaafi’ee, may Allah have mercy upon him, “Ash-Shaafi’ee dealt harshly with ahlul ilhaad [V] and ahlul bidah – openly declaring his hatred and boycotting them”. [Manaaqib Ash-Shaafi’ee. 1/469]

Imam Ahmad, may Allah have mercy on him, stated: “If a man gives Salaams to a Mubtadi, it indicates that he loves him” [Tabaqaat al-Hanabilah, 1/196]. 

This demonstrates that it is not permissible to love the proponents of innovation in religious matters.

Ibnul Mubarak, may Allah have mercy upon him, said: “O Allah! Do not allow a proponent of innovation in religious matters to have a (hand in my affairs, gain the upper hand with something of worldly benefit, or extend a favour to me), thus my heart loves him”. [Reported by Al-Laalikaa’ee in Sharh Usool Ittiqaad Ahlia Sunnati Wal-Jamaa’ah 1/140]

One of the signs of the truth is having hatred for those who adhere to religion based on desires, and whoever loves the truth has to hate ahlul ahwaa – meaning ahlul bidah”. [Seerah As-Saliheen 3/1154 and Al-Hilyah 10/392 by Abu Nu’aym (may Allah have mercy on both of them)] [End of quotes] https://aldhafiri.net/?p=1234

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Footnotes

Footnote I: Aathaar As-Salafiyyah [the authentic narrations based on the revelation and transmitted by the pious predecessors (the Prophet and his companions)] and Aqwaal Al-Athariyyah [the authentic statements transmitted from the companions of the Messenger – either with authentic chains of transmission from the Prophet or the companions]

What is Salaf and Salafiyyah? https://abukhadeejah.com/defining-salafiyyah-and-its-call-dawah-islam-the-sunnah-salafi-athari-ahlus-sunnah-ahlul-hadeeth-part-1/

http://www.salafis.com/index.cfm

Footnote II: What is Khaarijiyyah? http://www.kharijites.com/kj/

Footnote III: http://www.aqidah.com/creed/articles/hxnhe-the-splitting-of-the-muslim-ummah-part-3.cfm

Footnote IV: Who are Ahlul Ahwaa? [The People of Desires]: Shaikh Al-Islam, may Allah have mercy upon him] also said, “It is well known that the (act) of shunning by those who (express their) aversion or the love of those who are in agreement is neither an indication of the correctness nor corruption of a statement, except when it is based on guidance from Allah; rather merely (utilising) a statement as proof (without guidance from Allah) is tantamount to following desires. Allah, The Most High, says: [ وَإِنَّ كَثِيرً۬ا لَّيُضِلُّونَ بِأَهۡوَآٮِٕهِم بِغَيۡرِ عِلۡمٍ‌ۗ – And surely many do lead (mankind) astray by their own desires through lack of knowledge]. [Al-An’am. 119]

Allah, The Most High, says: [ فَإِن لَّمۡ يَسۡتَجِيبُواْ لَكَ فَٱعۡلَمۡ أَنَّمَا يَتَّبِعُونَ أَهۡوَآءَهُمۡ‌ۚ وَمَنۡ أَضَلُّ مِمَّنِ ٱتَّبَعَ هَوَٮٰهُ بِغَيۡرِ هُدً۬ى مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ‌ۚ – But if they answer you not (i.e. do not believe in your doctrine of Islamic Monotheism, nor follow you), then know that they only follow their own lusts. And who is more astray than one who follows his own lusts, without guidance from Allah?] [Al-Qasas. 50]

Allah, The Most High, said to Dawud, peace be upon him,: [وَلَا تَتَّبِعِ ٱلۡهَوَىٰ فَيُضِلَّكَ عَن سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِ‌ۚ – And follow not your desire for it will mislead you from the Path of Allah]. [Surah Saad. Verse 26]

Allah says: [ فَإِن شَهِدُواْ فَلاَ تَشْهَدْ مَعَهُمْ وَلاَ تَتَّبِعْ أَهْوَاء الَّذِينَ كَذَّبُواْ بِآيَاتِنَا وَالَّذِينَ لاَ يُؤْمِنُونَ بِالآخِرَةِ وَهُم بِرَبِّهِمْ يَعْدِلُونَ – Then if they testify, testify not you (O Muhammad) with them. And you should not follow the vain desires of such as treat Our Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) as falsehoods, and such as believe not in the Hereafter, and they hold others as equal (in worship) with their Lord]. [Al-An’am. 150]

Allah says: [قُلۡ يَـٰٓأَهۡلَ ٱلۡڪِتَـٰبِ لَا تَغۡلُواْ فِى دِينِڪُمۡ غَيۡرَ ٱلۡحَقِّ وَلَا تَتَّبِعُوٓاْ أَهۡوَآءَ قَوۡمٍ۬ قَدۡ ضَلُّواْ مِن قَبۡلُ وَأَضَلُّواْ ڪَثِيرً۬ا وَضَلُّواْ عَن سَوَآءِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ – Say (O Muhammad): “O people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians)! Exceed not the limits in your religion (by believing in something) other than the truth, and do not follow the vain desires of people who went astray in times gone by, and who misled many, and strayed (themselves) from the Right Path)”. [Surah Al-Maa’idah. Verse 77]

So whoever follows the desires of the people after (clarification of) the knowledge Allah has revealed to His Messenger and the guidance He clarified for His slaves, then he (i.e. such a person) has a resemblance (to those regarded as followers of desires). And due to this, the proponents of religious innovations and factionalism – those who oppose the Quran and authentic Prophetic path – were named Ahlul Ahwaa [the people of desires] by the pious predecessors because of the fact that they accept what they love and reject what they hate based on their desires without guidance from Allah. [Majmoo Al-Fataawaa 4/189-190]

Footnote V: Ahlul ilhaad [Those guilty of ilhaad]. What is ilhaad? The word il’haad has a linguistic and customary meaning. Linguistically it means to turn away from obedience to Allah, either by abandoning an obligation or committing something unlawful. Allaah said: [وَمَن يُرِدْ فِيهِ بِإِلْحَادٍ بِظُلْمٍ نُّذِقْهُ مِنْ عَذَابٍ أَلِيمٍ – And whoever inclines to evil actions therein or to do wrong (i.e. practice polytheism and leave Islamic Monotheism), him We shall cause to taste a painful torment]. [Surah Al-Hajj. Aayah 25]

So, based on this Aayah everyone who is disobedient to Allah is a Mul’hid. However, il’haad is categorised into two types: a type that expels a person from Islam and it necessitates disbelief, and the type that does not expel a person from Islam and it necessitates sinfulness. As for the customary meaning, it is to reject the fact that Allah alone has the right to be worshipped, rejecting Allaah’s existence, or a Muslim becoming an apostate. [Listen here by Imam Muhammad Ibn Saaleh Al-Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy upon him):

Reflections from some statements of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [2 of 80]

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy

Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allah preserve him, said:

O brothers! I warn you against harbouring intentions of seeking after the Dunyah, its status and authority in the affair of learning and seeking knowledge, for indeed (knowledge of the religion) is worship – one of the best types of worship; rather the religion, acts of worship, Jihad [I] and a (successful) life cannot be established except through this knowledge. However, it is obligated to us to purify our intentions in this worship. “Whoever seeks knowledge by which the pleasure of Allah is sought, but he only acquires it for worldly gain, he will not smell the fragrance of Paradise”. [II]

This is a very important point and a great affair that the students of knowledge must be notified, for indeed many of them are heedless of it. It may be that a person seeks knowledge for the sake of worldly gain or other goals that are not beloved to Allah -neither legislated nor permitted by Allah, thus they fall into destruction. This affair enters into the rebuke directed at the Yahud.

مَثَلُ ٱلَّذِينَ حُمِّلُواْ ٱلتَّوۡرَٮٰةَ ثُمَّ لَمۡ يَحۡمِلُوهَا كَمَثَلِ ٱلۡحِمَارِ يَحۡمِلُ أَسۡفَارَۢا‌ۚ بِئۡسَ مَثَلُ ٱلۡقَوۡمِ ٱلَّذِينَ كَذَّبُواْ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ ٱللَّهِ‌ۚ وَٱللَّهُ لَا يَہۡدِى ٱلۡقَوۡمَ ٱلظَّـٰلِمِينَ

The likeness of those who were entrusted with the (obligation of the) Taurat (Torah) (i.e. to obey its commandments and to practise its legal laws), but who subsequently failed in those (obligations), is as the likeness of a donkey who carries huge burdens of books (but understands nothing from them). How bad is the example (or the likeness) of people who deny the Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, signs, revelations, etc.) of Allah. And Allah guides not the people who are Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers, disbelievers, etc.). [Al-Jumu’ah 5]

I seek refuge with (Allah) for myself and you from these blameworthy traits. A person possesses knowledge and does not act upon it, so he is either included (in this) verse or some of it applies to him. May Allah protect us and you, for indeed the Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him informed us about the destination of those who perform acts of worship only to be seen, whether it is a student of knowledge, a scholar, a Mujahid or one who spends his wealth. O my brothers! Sincerity is a great affair. It is incumbent upon a Muslim to guard it and take himself to account at every moment of his life. One of the pious predecessors said: “I used to hold that the hadith requires an intention (sincere intention for seeking knowledge of hadith), but then I realised that every hadith requires a (sincere) intention. Therefore, when you narrate or speak, do you desire praise from the people or do you desire the Face of Allah, The Blessed and Exalted? Do you desire that it is said, “He is a scholar, he is intelligent, he is a learned person of sound, precise and robust understanding” or do you desire the Face of Allah and to fulfil the responsibility you carry?! [An Excerpt from “Marhaban Yaa Talibal Ilm” pages 53-55]

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[I] Read article written by Shaikh Abu Khadeejah, may Allah preserve him, from the works of Al-Allamah Salih Al-Fawzan, may Allah preserve him: https://abukhadeejah.com/salafi-shaikh-fawzaan-on-jihaad-in-our-times-and-the-guidelines-of-jihaad-according-to-islam/

[II] Sahih Targhib 105

Still Love Your Wife or Find Her Attractive After So Many Years?!

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Neither Husbands Nor Wives Are Perfect

Allah, The Exalted, says:

فَإِن كَرِهۡتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكۡرَهُواْ شَيۡـًٔ۬ا وَيَجۡعَلَ ٱللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيۡرً۬ا ڪَثِيرً۬ا 

If you dislike them (i.e. your wives), it may be that you dislike a thing and Allah brings through it a great deal of good]. [An-Nisa. 19]

Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

A person may harbour a dislike for a woman based on a particular characteristic, despite the presence of a great deal of good in maintaining the relationship, but he does not know. He may love a woman due to one of her characteristics, while maintaining the relationship would bring considerable evil but he does not know. The human being is as it has been described by his Creator: “Verily, he (man) was unjust (to himself) and ignorant (of its results). [Al-Ahzab 72]

It is therefore unbefitting that he places his love, aversion and hatred as a standard for determining what is beneficial or harmful to him. Instead, the true measure lies in the commandments and prohibitions that Allah has ordained for him. The most beneficial course of action – without exception – for him is to obey his Lord, both in outward conduct and his inner self (thoughts). The most detrimental actions for him are those of disobedience to his Lord, both in outward conduct and his inner self. Should he commit to sincere obedience and servitude to Allah, he will find that even the disliked things he encounters are better for him; whereas, if he turns away from such obedience, everything he loves is bad for him. Therefore, one who possesses sound knowledge regarding his Lord, along with knowledge of the Names and Attributes of his Lord, recognises with certainty that there are significant benefits and advantages hidden within the trials and adversities he faces, which he may not be able to fully comprehend through mere knowledge and reflection. In fact, the benefits and welfare available to a servant of Allah in what he detests far exceed those found in what he loves. [Al-Fawaa’id: page: 145]

Looking at The One Proposed For Marriage and Beauty Is In The Eye of The Beholder

Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “I was with the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, when a man came and told him that he had married a woman of the Ansaar. Allah’s Messenger [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] said to him, ‘Have you seen her?’ He said, ‘No’. He said, ‘Go and look at her, because there is something in the eyes of the Ansaar'”. [Sahih Muslim. 1424]

Regarding the statement, “Because there is something in the eyes of the Ansaar”, Imam An-Nawawi, may Allah have mercy upon him, said, “It is said that the intent behind this is Small-eyed and it is said that it is Bleary-eyed”. (1)

Mughirah Bin Shubah, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “I came to the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and told him of a woman to whom I had to propose marriage. He said, ‘Go and look at her, because that is more likely to create love between you.’ So, I went to a woman among the Ansar and proposed marriage through her parents. I told them what the Prophet had said, and it was as if they did not like that. Then I heard that woman behind her curtain, saying, ‘If the Messenger of Allah has told you to do that, then do it, otherwise I adjure you by Allah (not to do so)’. And it was as if she regarded that as a serious matter. So I looked at her and married her.” And he (Mughirah) mentioned how well he got along with her. (2)

After seeing the one you want to marry and decide to go ahead because she is beautiful in your eyes as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then ask Allah sincerely to place genuine love, compassion, mercy and respect between you, as Allah [The Most High] said:

وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect. [Ar-Rum. 21]

Allah, The Exalted, says: [وَٱلَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبۡ لَنَا مِنۡ أَزۡوَٲجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعۡيُنٍ۬ وَٱجۡعَلۡنَا لِلۡمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا – And those who say: Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the pious]. [Al-Furqan. 74]

Imaam Ibn Al-Qayyim, may Allah have mercy upon him, said, “They ask Allah to grant them the comfort of the eye by making their wives and offspring obedient to Allah, and to grant them happiness in their hearts due to being followed by the righteous in obedience and servitude to Allah. That is because a trustworthy leader in the religion co-operates upon obedience (to Allah and His Messenger), and that is to call to (sound) leadership in the religion, whose foundation is patience and certainty, as Allah, The Most High, says:

[ وَجَعَلۡنَا مِنۡہُمۡ أَٮِٕمَّةً۬ يَہۡدُونَ بِأَمۡرِنَا لَمَّا صَبَرُواْ‌ۖ وَڪَانُواْ بِـَٔايَـٰتِنَا يُوقِنُونَ – And We made from among them (Children of Israel), leaders, giving guidance under Our Command, when they were patient and used to believe with certainty in Our Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.). Thus, in their supplication -[in Surah Al-Furqan verse 74]- to Allah that He makes them leaders of the righteous people, is that Allah guides them, grants them success, bless them with beneficial knowledge and righteous actions- outwardly and inwardly – without which (sound) leadership in the religion cannot be achieved”. (3)

Then strive to live your life based on the guidance of the infallible Qur’an and Sunnah, return to them – in all your affairs – and to the upright scholars and elders in all circumstances. Strive to know your wife’s character and let your household be that of mercy, sincere advice and harmony. Aa’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, narrated that Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said to her, “O Aa’isha! Be gentle, for indeed when Allah wishes good for a household, He guides them to gentleness”.

Al-Allamah Zaid Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allah have mercy upon him] said, “This hadeeth contains proof regarding the fact that it is obligatory to give sincere advice and the first people one should give sincere advice is the members of the household- the wives, sons, daughters and others. Also this hadeeth contains proof regarding the virtue of gentleness in all affairs, for indeed gentleness is not found in any affair except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it damages it. On the other hand, the opposite of gentleness is warn against and it is the harshness that is applied in other than its rightful place, because its end result will be alienation and disharmony”. (4)

Aa’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, narrated that Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said to her, “I know when you are pleased with me or angry with me”. I said, “When do you know that?” He said, “When you are pleased with me, you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Muhammad,’ but when you are angry with me, then you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Abrahim.’ ” Thereupon I said, “Yes, (certainly, you are right); but by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger, I do not leave anything else besides your name”.

Benefits From This Hadeeth

A man’s thorough observation regarding the state of a woman due to her action, speech, inclination or lack of inclination towards him based on indications, because the Prophet [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] firmly determined Aa’isha’s happiness or anger merely when she mentioned or refrain from mentioning his name; therefore, he judged the two situations based on the mention or the absence of a mention of his name as an indication of happiness or anger. It can also be definitely the case that there is something more explicit regarding this affair, but he did not say it.

And regarding the statement of Aa’isha, “Yes (certainly, you are right); but by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger, I do not leave anything else besides your name”. At-Teebee said, “This is a very subtle way of making an exception, because she related that when she is in a state of anger – a state in which a sane person loses his senses by choice, her affirmed love for the Messenger does not change.

Ibn Al-Muneer said, “What Aa’isha intended is that she left out the wording of the Prophet’s name but her heart’s pure love and affection towards the noble person of the Prophet does not leave her.

With regards to the choice Aa’isha made to use Prophet Ibrahim’s, peace be upon him, name instead of the other Prophet’s, this is proof regarding her intelligence because the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, is the one with the best claim to Ibrahim just as Allah stated in the Qur’an. Therefore, when she had no other way of leaving a noble name, she replaced it with the name of someone who is from the one whose name she left out, so that her heart does not exit the boundaries of that attachment. (5)

This is what we ask Allah for even when our wives are not happy with us due to some misunderstanding or disagreement – still loving us just as we love them regardless of their physical appearance after they’ve gone past the age of youth – forty and above. They are the ones who carried our children, whilst enduring great and severe difficulty during pregnancy, then the great difficulty of childbirth, breast feeding and baby-sitting. These difficulties -as Imam As Sadi stated – did not only last for a short period, an hour or two; rather its time period was thirty months. And in most cases the period of pregnancy is nine months or (a bit less or more), and then breast feeding during the remaining months after childbirth. (a) It would be enough to respect our wives and appreciate their patience after witnessing a single child birth! The one who bore this severe pain to deliver our beloved children deserves to be looked at with great admiration, compassion and respect- an affair that should be given paramount importance over that outward beauty that is no longer the same as when she was younger; and in addition to this, why do we not ask ourselves whether they still find us attractive after our youth has elapsed?! Marriage is not lust and the woman is not just pleasure and enjoyment! https://salafidawahmanchester.com/2014/06/13/reminder-marriage-is-not-lust-and-the-woman-is-not-just-pleasure-and-enjoyment/

The wives who gave birth to our beloved children, nieces, nephews and grand children, and took care of them; guard our wealth and honour, guard their chastity and honour, indeed none asks – with amazement – whether their husbands still find them attractive after years of marriage, sacrifice and patience, except an ingrate- one who neither fully understands the real purpose of marriage and companionship nor what beauty is in reality. The Prophet [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] said, “He who does not thank the people is not thankful to Allah”. (6)

Imam Abdul Azeez Bin Baz, may Allah have mercy upon him, stated about this hadeeth: “Whoever – from his traits and character – does not thank people for their good behaviour and kindness towards him, then he is not thankful to Allah due to his evil and rough behaviour, because indeed he is most likely in such a situation not to thank Allah. Therefore, that which is obligated on a believer is to be thankful to the one who does good to him among his relatives and others. And just as it is obligated on him to thank Allah for the good bestowed on him, it is also obligated on him to thank the people for their good behaviour and kindness towards him. Allah [جل وعلا] loves that His servants thank those who are good to them and that they return good with good. The Prophet [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] said, “Whoever does good to you, pay him back. If you cannot find something to give in return, then supplicate for him until he sees that you have indeed repaid him”. (7) And due to this, it is legislated for the believer (in the Shariah) to supplicate for the one who supplicates for him, respond with kindness to the one who did good to him, commend him with good in return for his kindness to him and do good to him. This is from good manners and good deeds”. (8)

Indeed, these women are a blessing and only a fool gets bored with Allah’s blessings, as Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim stated, “One of the common hidden afflictions is when a person has a blessing bestowed on him by Allah; but he becomes bored with it, seeks to do away with it, and – due to ignorance- turns to what he claims is better for him than it. His Lord – out of Mercy- does not remove him from that blessing- excuses him for his ignorance and the bad choice he makes for himself, until he becomes fed up with the blessing, angered and dissatisfied due to it, and being fed up becomes firmly established; then Allah takes it away from him. After turning to what he sought after and then see the difference between the state he used to be in as opposed to his affair at present, his anxiety and regret intensifies, so he seeks to return to the state he was in. There is nothing more harmful to the servant than being fed up with Allah’s blessings, because neither does he see it as a blessing nor thank Allah him for it, nor rejoice regarding it; but rather it angers him. He complains and considers it a calamity, even though it is one of Allah’s greatest blessings conferred on him. The majority of the people are enemies of Allah’s blessings and they do not realise the blessings Allah has made available at their disposal, whilst striving to repel and reject them out of ignorance and wrongdoing. And how numerous a blessing is granted to one of them, whilst he is eager to strive his hardest to repel it! And how much reaches him while he was eager to repel and remove it due to his injustice and ignorance! Allah [The Exalted] says:

[ذَٲلِكَ بِأَنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَمۡ يَكُ مُغَيِّرً۬ا نِّعۡمَةً أَنۡعَمَهَا عَلَىٰ قَوۡمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُواْ مَا بِأَنفُسِہِمۡ‌ۙ – That is so because Allah will never change a grace which He has bestowed on a people until they change what is in their ownselves]. [Al-Anfal. 53]

Allah, The Exalted, says: [إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوۡمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُواْ مَا بِأَنفُسِہِمۡ‌ۗ – Verily! Allah will not change the good condition of a people as long as they do not change their state of goodness themselves (by committing sins and by being ungrateful and disobedient to Allah)]. [Surah Rad. Verse 11]

There is not a greater enemy against a blessing than the soul that (whispers evil to the person), because he overcomes himself together with his enemy. His enemy throws fire on his blessings while he blows on it – enables him to throw fire and then helps him to blow it. (9)

We ask Allah to preserve our wives for us and preserve us for them, overlook our shortcomings and bestow abundant mercy upon us, our parents and families. We ask Allah to include us amongst those who are grateful and thankful to Him and the people Aameen.

a: Tafseer Surah Al-Ahqaaf, Aayah 15

[1]: Sharh Saheeh Muslim. Vol 9. page 179. Publisher. Dar Kutub Al-Ilmiyyah. 1st Edition 1421AH (Year 2000)]

[2]: Saheeh Ibn Maajah 1866]

[3]: An Excerpt from ‘Ar-Rooh’ pages 487-489. slightly paraphrased]

[4]: At-ta’leeqaat Al-Maleehah Alaa Silsilah Al-Ahaadeeth As-Saheehah. Vol 1 page 277. Slightly paraphrased]

[5]: An Excerpt from Fat-hul Baari Sharh Saheeh Al-Bukhaari Hadeeth 5228. Vol 9, Pages 404- 405. Slightly paraphrased. Publisher. Daarus Salaam. 1st Edition 1421AH [Year 2000]

[6]: Sunan Abu Dawud. Number 4811]

[7]: Declared Saheeh By Imaam Al-Albaanee in ‘Irwaa al-Ghaleel. Number 1617]

[8]:https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/15472/%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AD%D9%83%D9%85-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%89-%D8%AD%D8%AF%D9%8A%D8%AB-%D9%85%D9%86-%D9%84%D8%A7-%D9%8A%D8%B4%D9%83%D8%B1-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%86%D8%A7%D8%B3-%D9%88%D9%85%D8%B9%D9%86%D8%A7%D9%87 paraphrased]

[9]: Al-Fawaa’id 259-260.]

Reflections from some statements of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali [1 of 80]

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allah preserve him, said:

Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the noble Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “There is no envy except in two cases: a man whom Allah has given Al-Hikmah [knowledge of the Qur’an and Sunnah] and he acts according to it; and a man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it righteously”. [Al-Bukhari 73]

These people have Ghibtah (i.e. desire the blessings bestowed on others but do not desire that its possessors should be deprived of it). Hasad in this hadith means Ghibtah, whereas envy (i.e. the blameworthy one) is to wish that the blessings bestowed on a person, such as wealth, knowledge and other than them should cease to exist – regardless whether you want to have the same or merely wishing that the blessings be taken away from him. This is a disease of the Yahud and we ask Allah to remove (it) from the Muslims because it is a destructive disease and Allah’s refuge is sought. So, the Hasad intended in this hadith is Al-Ghibtah, which is to wish for the same blessings given to another person (i.e. without wishing that he be deprived of it). For example, Allah bestows a person knowledge and the (ability) to perform good deeds, so you wish that Allah should also grant you knowledge and the (ability) to perform good deeds just as it has been bestowed on that person. This is Ghibtah and it is praiseworthy. It is to strive to excel one another in good deeds. Allah says: [وَفِى ذَٲلِكَ فَلۡيَتَنَافَسِ ٱلۡمُتَنَـٰفِسُونَ – And for this (i.e. paradise) let (all) those strive who want to strive (i.e. hasten earnestly to the obedience of Allah)]. Therefore, it is incumbent upon the students of knowledge to strive in acquiring knowledge and hasten towards all that is good, but without (blameworthy) envy; rather they should do this based on Ghibtah and hastening earnestly to obey Allah.

As for striving and hastening towards the worldly things (against one another), it is blameworthy. “Do not envy one another, do not hate one another and do not outbid one another”. [Muslim 2563] All these traits are blameworthy – both in the worldly and religious affairs. Therefore, in the hadith, Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, urged the Ummah towards good deeds, such as knowledge, Salah etc. The Prophet said, “The best rows are the first rows” [Muslim 440]. “If the people knew (the reward for) pronouncing the Adhan and standing in the first row (in the congregational prayer) and found no other way to get it except by drawing lots, they would do so”. [Al-Bukhari 654]

Hastening to get to the first row is a praiseworthy deed, similarly hastening towards knowledge, seeking to become proficient in it, excel and become talented in it. I ask Allah to facilitate (ability) for the Mutanaafiseen (i.e. those striving and hastening towards all good to excel) so that there arises from this ummah the likes of the senior Imams, such as Al Awzaa’ee, Ath-Thawri, Malik, Ash-Shafi’ee, Ahmad, Ibn Taymiyyah, Muhammad Ibn Abdil Wahhab and those like them among the Imams of guidance – those through whom Allah raised the guiding light of Islam and guided the nations, and whose knowledge enlightened the whole world. [An Excerpt from “Marhaban Yaa Talibal Ilm”. pages 51-52]

Among The Insightful Fatherly Advices of Al-Allamah Rabee Bin Hadi

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Al-Allaamah Rabee Bin Hadi Al-Madkhali, may Allah preserve him, stated:

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy. May peace and blessings of be upon Allah’s Messenger, his family, companions and those who follow his guidance. To proceed:

I counsel myself and you all to fear Allah in all circumstances, and in all affairs. Fear of Allah in creed and worship, and likewise sincerity, in our relationships for the sake of Allah, The Mighty and Majestic. Fear of Allah and sincerity is from the foundations (of the religion).

Allah says:
وَمَن يَتَّقِ ٱللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُۥ مَخْرَجًا
وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ

And whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. [at-Talaq 2-3]

وَقُولُوا۟ قَوْلًا سَدِيدًا
يُصْلِحْ لَكُمْ أَعْمَٰلَكُمْ وَيَغْفِرْ لَكُمْ ذُنُوبَكُمْ وَمَن يُطِعِ ٱللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُۥ فَقَدْ فَازَ فَوْزًا عَظِيمًا

And speak (always) the truth. He will direct you to do righteous good deeds and will forgive you your sins. And whosoever obeys Allah and His Messenger he has indeed achieved a great achievement (i.e. he will be saved from the Hell-fire and made to enter Paradise). [Al-Ahzab 70-71]

وَمَآ أُمِرُوٓا۟ إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ مُخْلِصِينَ لَهُ ٱلدِّينَ حُنَفَآءَ وَيُقِيمُوا۟ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ وَيُؤْتُوا۟ ٱلزَّكَوٰةَ وَذَٰلِكَ دِينُ ٱلْقَيِّمَةِ

And they were not commanded (in their scriptures) except to worship Allāh (alone), being sincere to Him in religious devotion, being upright and inclined (to truth) and to establish the prayer and to give obligatory charity. And that is the upright, correct religion.
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Fear of Allah in speech and action, sincerity to Allah in speech and action, [Muraqabatullah in all situations – close awareness of Allah that Allah knows, hears and sees everything]. If a person is upon this state – what a blessing to be in this state! If a person’s life is established on fear of Allah or unity upon this state, then what blessing! If life is established on fear of Allah and sincerity to Allah, Muraqabatullah in every affair, the affairs will be (upright and good) in this life and the next..

I counsel you to adhere to the Book and the Sunnah.

وَٱعْتَصِمُوا۟ بِحَبْلِ ٱللَّهِ جَمِيعًا وَلَا تَفَرَّقُوا۟

And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah (i.e. this Quran), and be not divided among yourselves.

Cling to the rope of Allah, be distanced from splitting – from every cause of splitting. Be like one body that if a limb
aches, the whole body reacts with sleeplessness and fever.

Among the most important things is loving one another for the sake of Allah. “Allah will say on the Day of Resurrection: Where are those who loved one another for the sake of My majesty? Today, I will shade them in My shade (shade of the Throne) on a day when there is no shade but Mine (shade of thr Throne).”

On the day of Judgement, there will be great hardship! While the people are in such a great state of hardship, those who loved one another for the sake of Allah will be under Allah’s shade (i.e. the shade of the Throne). Thus be earnestly eager for brotherhood for the sake of Allah, love for the sake of Allah and preventing every cause that will weaken this love or its removal, or leads to splitting. Splitting is evil. Allah says:

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ فَرَّقُوا۟ دِينَهُمْ وَكَانُوا۟ شِيَعًا لَّسْتَ مِنْهُمْ فِى شَىْءٍ

Verily, those who divide their religion and break up into sects (all kinds of religious sects), you (O Muhammad) have no concern in them in the least.

وَأَقِيمُوا۟ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ وَلَا تَكُونُوا۟ مِنَ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ
مِنَ ٱلَّذِينَ فَرَّقُوا۟ دِينَهُمْ وَكَانُوا۟ شِيَعًا كُلُّ حِزْبٍۭ بِمَا لَدَيْهِمْ فَرِحُونَ

And perform the prayer and be not of Al-Mushrikun (the disbelievers in the Oneness of Allah, polytheists, idolaters, etc.) Of those who split up their religion (i.e. who left the true Islamic Monotheism), and became sects, [i.e. they invented new things in the religion (Bid’ah), and followed their vain desires], each sect rejoicing in that which is with it. [Ar-Rum 30-31]

This is the state of the polytheists. The truthful believer is distanced far away from this state. Distance from this evil state of affairs.

Seek knowledge; be digiligent in pursuit of knowledge from the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of the Messenger; from the Salafi books of Tafsir; from the books of the Imams of Dawah Salafiyyah, such as Ahmad Bin Hanbal, Ibn Taymiyyah, Ibn Al-Qayyim, Muhammad Bin Abdil Wahhab and other than them. They have great books in Aqeedah, Ibaadah, and other areas. Seek understanding of the religion. “Whoever Allah wishes good for, he grants them understanding of the religion”…[Abridged] [The End]

We beseech Allah for ourselves and for all Muslims, seeking His guidance to implement this noble counsel and to safeguard us from all that is displeasing to our Lord until we meet Him. We ask Allah:

اللَّهُمَّ آتِ نَفْسِي تَقْوَاهَا، وَزَكِّهَا أَنْتَ خَيْرُ مَن زَكَّاهَا، أَنْتَ وَلِيُّهَا وَمَوْلَاهَا، اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أَعُوذُ بكَ مِن عِلْمٍ لا يَنْفَعُ، وَمِنْ قَلْبٍ لا يَخْشَعُ، وَمِنْ نَفْسٍ لا تَشْبَعُ، وَمِنْ دَعْوَةٍ لا يُسْتَجَابُ لَهَا

O Allah! Grant my soul its piety, and purify it, for You are the best of those who purify it. You are its Guardian and Protector. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from knowledge that does not benefit, from a heart that does not fear, from a soul that is never satisfied, and from a supplication that is not answered. [Sahih Muslim 2722]

اللَّهُمَّ بِعِلْمِكَ الْغَيْبَ وَقُدْرَتِكَ عَلَى الْخَلْقِ أَحْيِنِي مَا عَلِمْتَ الْحَيَاةَ خَيْراً لِي وَتَوَفَّنِي إِذَا عَلِمْتَ الْوَفَاةَ خَيْراً لِي، اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَشْيَتَكَ فِي الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ كَلِمَةَ الْحَقِّ فِي الرِّضَا وَالْغَضَبِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الْقَصْدَ فِي الْغِنَى وَالْفَقْرِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ نَعِيماً لَا يَنْفَذُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ قُرَّةَ عَيْنٍ لَا تَنْقَطِعُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الرِّضِا بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ بَرْدَ الْعَيْشِ بَعْدَ الْمَوْتِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ لَذَّةَ النَّظَرِ إِلَى وَجْهِكَ وَالشَّوْقَ إِلَى لِقَائِكَ فِي غَيْرِ ضَرَّاءَ مُضِرَّةٍ وَلَا فِتْنَةٍ مُضِلَّةٍ، اللَّهُمَّ زَيِّنَّا بِزِينَةِ الْإِيمَانِ
وَاجْعَلْنَا هُدَاةً مُهْتَدِينَ

O Allah! By Your Knowledge of the unseen and by Your Power over creation, let me live if life is good for me, and let me die if death is good for me; O Allah! I ask You to grant me (the blessing of having) fear of You in private and public, and I ask You (to make me utter) a statement of truth in times of contentment and anger, and I ask You for moderation when in a state of wealth and poverty, and I ask you for blessings that never ceases, and I ask You for the coolness of my eye that never ends, and I ask You (to make me pleased) after (Your) decree; and I ask You for a life of (ease, comfort, tranquillity, etc) after death; I ask You for the delight of looking at Your Face (i.e. in the Hereafter) and yearning to meet You without any harm and misleading trials (coming upon me). O Allah! Adorn us with the adornment of Iman, and make us (from those who are) guided and guiding (others). (1)

اللَّهُمَّ أَصْلِحْ لِي دِينِي الَّذِي هُوَ عِصْمَةُ أَمْرِي
وَأَصْلِحْ لِي دُنْيَايَ الَّتِي فِيهَا مَعَاشِي
وَأَصْلِحْ لِي آخِرَتِي الَّتِي فِيهَا مَعَادِي
وَاجْعَلِ الْحَيَاةَ زِيَادَةً لِي فِي كُلِّ خَيْرٍ
وَاجْعَلِ الْمَوْتَ رَاحَةً لِي مِنْ كُلِّ شَرٍّ

O Allah! Rectify my religion for me, which is the safeguard of my affairs; rectify my worldly [affairs], wherein is my livelihood; and rectify my Afterlife to which is my return; and make life for me [as a means of] increase in every good and make death for me as a rest from every evil. [Saheeh Muslim Number: 2720] (2)

(1) https://salafidawahmanchester.com/2021/01/01/o-allaah-let-me-live-if-life-is-good-for-me-and-let-me-die-if-death-is-good-for-me/

(2) https://salafidawahmanchester.com/2020/12/29/o-allaah-rectify-my-religion-for-me-which-the-safeguard-of-my-affairs-a-tremendous-supplication/

Some Profound Advantages for the Soul That May Go Unnoticed When Deprived of Certain Worldly Desires

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In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Ubaidullaah Ibn Mihsan Al-Khatmiy narrated from his father that the Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “Whoever among you wakes up (in the morning) safe in his property, healthy in his body and has his daily nourishment, it is as if he has been granted the entire world’’.

Al-Allaamah Zayd Bin Haadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said:

This hadith shows that those blessed with safety in the lands, physical health, houses to live in and daily nourishment have indeed been blessed with a complete (worldly) blessing. Therefore, it is obligatory to thank Allah constantly.

This hadith shows that what suffice a person’s needs are a bounty and a blessing for which he must thank Allah [The Mighty and Majestic]. A person may strive to gather a lot of wealth; however he was created to worship of Allah [The Mighty and Majestic] in the manner [commanded, legislated] by Allah and His Messenger [i.e. based on what is legislated and commanded in the Qur’aan and authentic Sunnah]. If a person does this, he will achieve and attain success; but if not, he will fail and incur loss. Therefore, is there one who will receive admonition?!

This hadith shows that to be blessed with safety in one’s religion, honour, wealth and blood is (something) valuable. These are among those affairs whose establishment- in a society- will bring about a good life and security. But if security is not present, chaos will unravel in the society – the powerful people will overpower the weak and the oppressor will overpower the oppressed, and thus there will be an evil state of affairs and maybe evil consequences. Any society or land that has been bestowed a ruler among the Muslims and granted security in a region under his ruler-ship, it is obligatory to obey him [i.e. obey the ruler of the land in what is good and not to rebel against him, even if he has shortcomings] and he should be aided by the other lands as much as one is able.

And what is seen as a fact in relation to this (hadith) is that whoever is blessed with enough food and drink, a dwelling place, means of transportation, security in his place of residence and good physical health, it is as if he has been given the entire world. Therefore, he should be thankful to Allah [The Mighty and Majestic] for that until he meets Allah. [1]

Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, said that Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “Look at those who are below you and do not look at those above you, for it is more suitable lest you look down on Allaah’s blessings”. [Sahih Muslim. 2963]

Al-Allamah Salih Al-Fawzan, may Allah preserve him, said:

A person should neither be covetous of this worldly life nor anxious due to what afflicts him, rather he should exercise patience and have hope, whether he is poor, sick or other than that. The worldly life is a place of trial and test, thus one should not become anxious due to calamities and trials. What makes this matter easier for a person is the guidance given by the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, in this hadith: “Look at those who are below you and do not look at those above you, for it is more suitable lest you look down on Allaah’s blessings”.

A poor person should look at the one who is poorer and should not look at a wealthier (person) because if Allah willed He would have placed you in the same situation as that poor person who has nothing. You have something – your daily nourishment; but that one poorer than you has nothing – not even his daily nourishment. You are in a better situation, so praise Allah for this and do not look at the wealthier people because that will lead you to harbour anger against Allah and being displeased with His divine Will, and then saying, “Why can I not be like such and such person; why am not like the wealthy people?” This is the meaning of looking down on the blessing you have. But if you look at the person below you, it will make you thankful because your situation is better than that of many people. Therefore, the one in good health should look at the sick person and then praise Allah for granting him good health. The one who is sick should look at the one who is sicker than him and then praise Allah for being less sick than the person who is sicker than him. This (hadith embodies) a great principle, therefore, “look to the one below you” in wealth, health and in other affairs. [Footnote a]

However, this should not be the case regarding acts of worship. In matters related to acts of worship, you should not look at the one below you. You should not look at the lazy people and those who neglect their religious duties, rather you should look at the righteous and God fearing people so that you can join them in performing good deeds and be similar to them.

Therefore, with regards to the religion, you should not look at the one below you, rather you should look at the one above you in the religion, for why do not want to be like him; why do you not want to be like the righteous people; why do not want to emulate the God fearing scholars? [Footnote b]

If you are a student of knowledge, you should not be satisfied with the sciences of the religion you have acquired; rather you should seek to increase in knowledge as long as you are alive. [2]
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Footnote a:

The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: The worldly life is for four types of people. A servant of Allah whom Allah has given wealth and knowledge, so he fears his Lord by way of it. He preserves the ties of kinship and acknowledges Allah’s Rights regarding it. This (type of person) is on the most virtuous position. A servant of Allah whom Allah has given knowledge but not wealth. He is truthful in his intention and says: If I had wealth, I would have done the deed of such and such (person).’ So because of this intention of his, his reward is the same (i.e. the righteous one who has been given wealth and knowledge). A servant of Allah whom Allaah has given wealth but not knowledge. He wastes his wealth out of ignorance. He neither fears Allah nor does he keep the ties of kinship, nor does he acknowledge Allah’s rights. This (type of person) is at the evilest position. A servant of Allah whom Allah has neither given wealth nor knowledge and he says:If I had wealth, I would have done the deed of such and such (person).’’ So by way of his intention, they are similar (i.e. similar to the evil person who wastes his wealth). [Reported by Tirmidhee 2325. Ahmad 18031. Al-Baghawiy 4097]

Al-Allamah Ubaid Bin Abdillah Al-Jabiri, may Allah have mercy upon him, stated: The first is a wealthy person who is thankful (to Allah), thus Allah will raise him to the most virtuous position due to his deed. The second is a poor person who exercises patience. He is truthful in his intention with regards to spending from that which Allah has bestowed on him. Thus Allah makes him reach the most virtuous position due to his truthful intention. The third is a boastful wealthy person. He is covetous and stingy; so his deed takes him to the most evil position. The fourth is a boastful poor person and his intention is evil. So together with his poverty, his intention takes him to the most evil position. Due to this, we know that by way of truthful intentions Allah raises the person and an evil intention debases a person until he finds himself in the most evil position. [An Excerpt from: البيان المرصع شرح القواعد الأربع- pages 8-9]

Footnote b:

Ibn Abee Shaybah, may Allah have mercy upon him, reported in Al-Musannaf and Abu Nu-aym, may Allah have mercy upon him, in Al-Hilya [5/12] with an authentic chain from Abu Muslim Al-Khawlaani, may Allah have mercy upon him, who said: “The scholars are three types: A man who lives with his knowledge and the people live with it alongside him; a man who lives with his knowledge and none else lives with it alongside him, and as for the third man, the people live with his knowledge and it destroys him”. Shaikh Abdullaah Al-Bukhari, may Allah preserve him, stated, “The intent behind this speech: Indeed the first knows, acts and teaches. As for the second, he knows and acts, but does not teach. As for the third, he knows and teaches, but does not act! We ask Allah for steadfastness and well-being”. [المقالات الشرعية– pages: 23-24]

Al-Allamah Siddiq Hasan Khan, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

The purpose of sciences of the religion in and of themselves is not to earn wealth, but rather acquaintance with facts and refining morals. Therefore, he who pursues knowledge of the religion for the sake of professionalism is not a scholar, but rather he is someone who feigns resemblance to the scholars. The scholars of Transoxiana revealed and stated this when they were informed of the construction of schools in Baghdad; so, they held gatherings of religious knowledge and stated: “The people with lofty aspirations and the pure souls used to preoccupy themselves with it, whose intent or (goal) behind the pursuit of knowledge was because of its nobility and perfection (attained) through it, so they came to the scholars to benefit from them and their knowledge. However, if it becomes a means of earning, the mean (vile) and lazy people will approach it and this will be a reason for its disappearance, thus the sciences of wisdom are abandoned, even though they are noble in and of themselves”. [An Excerpt from “Abjad Al-Uloom” 1/77-78]

Imam Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-Uthaymeen [may Allah have mercy upon him] said: “Among the people are those who have vast knowledge but (afflicted with vain) desires, and Allah’s refuge is sought (against this)! He issues religious verdicts based on what pleases the people, and not based on what pleases Allah. This one is called the scholar of the Ummah (or the people). The scholars are three types: the scholar of the religion, the scholar of the state (government), and the scholar of the Ummah. The scholar of the religion is the one who propagates the religion of Islam, issues religious verdicts based on the religion of Islam, knowledge, and what the Shariah establishes, and does not care whether it agrees with the desires of the people or not. The scholar of the state (or government) is the one who looks at what the state (or government) wants and issues a religious verdict based on what the state wants, even if that involves distorting Allah’s Book and the Sunnah of His Messenger. As for the scholar of the Ummah (or the people), he is the one who looks at what pleases the people. If he sees that the people are on something, he issues a religious verdict based on what pleases them, then he attempts to distort the texts of the Qur’an and Sunnah to make it agree with the desires of the people. We ask Allah to make us and you from the scholars of the religion who act upon it”. [An Excerpt from “Sharh Riyaadus Saaliheen” 4/307-308]

Shaikh Al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah [may Allah have mercy upon him] said: When it is case that the true followers of the Prophets [peace and blessings of Allah be upon them] are people of knowledge and justice, therefore the speech of the people of Islam and the true adherents to the Prophetic Sunnah regarding the unbelievers and the proponents of religious innovations has to be based on knowledge and justice, and not conjecture and what the soul desires. And due to this the Prophet [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] said, “The judges are three: one will go to Paradise and two to Hell. A man who knows the truth and judges with it will enter paradise; a man who knows the truth but judges with the opposite of it will enter the fire, and a man who judges for the people based on ignorance will enter the fire”. [Reported by Imaam Abu Dawud 3573]

When it is the case that the person who adjudicates amongst the people in disputes over wealth, blood (such as murder cases, acts of physical violence, etc.), and honour is (threatened) with entry into hell if he is not a just scholar, then what about the one who makes judgements – without knowledge and justice – on creeds, religions, fundamentals of belief, divine knowledge, and general fundamental principles relating to many subject matters, as is the case with Ahlul Bidah Wal Ahwaa [the proponents of religious innovations and followers of vain desires] who follow ambiguous doubtful matters, abandon those explicitly clear texts that the Prophets have transmitted, cling to affairs that share an ambiguous similarity through mere analogy and opinions, and then present affairs whose differences cannot be reconciled or equated, just as is the case with the unbelievers and all the proponents of religious innovation and followers of desires, who liken the creation to the Creator [i.e. they give the creation the Perfect Attributes that only belong to the Creator], and liken the Creator to the creation [i.e. by describing the Creator with the imperfect attributes of the Creation], and then they put forward an evil similitude for Allah by way of thoughtless and confusing speech. This is because the false religion of the Christians is an innovated [or concocted] religion- innovated after the departure of the Messiah [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] and altered the religion of the Messiah through it; so they deviated from the Messiah’s [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him] path and remained upon that which they innovated. [Al-Jawaabus Saheeh 1/26-30]

Amr Bin Al-Aas [may Allah be pleased with him] narrated that he heard Allah’s Messenger [peace and blessings of Allah be upon him]saying, “If a Mujtahid gives a verdict according to the best of his knowledge and his verdict is correct, he will receive a double reward, and if he gives a verdict according to the best of his knowledge and his verdict is wrong, even then he will get a reward”. [Bukhari Number 7352]

A Few Points From This Hadeeth:

[I] A Mujtahid is not deprived of reward. 

[II] The judgement of a non-Mujtahid is different from that of a Mujtahid. Shaikh Al-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah stated that the one who speaks about the religion without knowledge and out of ignorance (is guilty of) lying and sinning. 

[III] The one who intentionally speaks to oppose the truth is threatened with entry into the fire of hell, as opposed to the affair of the one who speaks based on permissible Ijtihaad, for indeed he strives, fears Allah as much as he is able, desires to seek knowledge as much as he was able, speaks for the sake of Allah, knows the stronger proof and speaks based on that. This person is given two rewards if he is correct, but if he is mistaken, he receives one reward. 

[IV] A Mujtahid can be correct or mistaken. [Al-Arba’oona Hadeethaa Fee Usoolil Fiqh. pages 32-33]

Al-Allaamah Rabee Bin Haadee [may Allaah preserve him] said: We do not say that there are people of Ijtihaad amongst ahlul bidah because they are followers of desires, and Allaah and His Messenger have testified to this. The misguided innovator stirs up discord and errs, and then says to you, “This is Ijtihaad”. When Hikmatiyaar and the misguided parties (in Afghanistan) murdered Shaikh Jameel Ur-Rahmaan, they said, “This is Ijtihaad”. They (ahlul bidah) do not fall into an affair of misguidance or a calamity except that they say, “This is Ijtihaad”. This is (tantamount) to diluting Islam, falsehood, misguidance, bidah and confounding truth with falsehood when the mistakes of the (qualified scholars of Ijtihaad)- for which they are rewarded- are placed at the same level with Bidah about which the Messenger declared to be destined for the hell fire. [An Excerpt from ‘Ajwibatul Allaamatush Shaikh Rabee Bin Haadee Al Madkhalee Alaa As-ilah Abee Rawaaha Al-Manhajiyyah page: 20]

Imam Ash-Shawkaanee [may Allah have mercy upon him] said:

We often see a man who holds a belief that aligns with truth and correctness. However, when he speaks to someone who disagrees with him- one who is inclined towards something of the innovated matters in the religion, and especially if that person holds a position of leadership or worldly wealth, not to mention a king, he agrees with him, strengthens, supports and aids him against others. The least in such circumstances is that he would hide what he believes is the truth and show contempt – in the presence of a person from whom it is neither possible to receive harm nor benefit – towards what has become clear to him is the right thing, so, what about someone from whom harm and benefit are possible? This behavior is essentially prioritising worldly things and the life of this world over the religion and the afterlife. If he observed and reflected upon what has happened to him, he would have realised that his inclination toward the (vain) desires of a man, two men, three or more individuals – among those he compliments within that gathering, conceals the truth to be in agreement with them and to gain affection, acquire their possessions, and avoid being isolated by them -is a deficiency in upholding the truth and tantamount to exalting falsehood. If it were not for the fact that these individuals hold a higher position in his eyes than the Lord, he would not have been inclined to their (vain) desires and abandoned what he knows to be what Allah wants and demands from His servants. [An Excerpt from Adabud Talab Wa Muntahaa Al-Adab. Pages 93-95]

[1]An Excerpt from ‘Awnul Ahadis Samad Sharh Al-Adabil Mufrad’ Vol 1. page 335

[2] An Excerpt from ‘Tasheelul il’haami Bi-Fiqhil Ahaadeethi Min Bulooghil Maraam’ Hadeeth Number 1438’ Vol 6′ pages 168-169. Publisher: Daar Al-Imaam Ahmad’ 1st Edition 1430AH – Year 2009]